I am in love but all he does is pull and push!

[maxpowr9]

Romance like this is like playing the stock market and knowing when to "sell". Sometimes you may rebound but others, it keeps going down. I get the feeling that your patience has run out and you need to move on. It's not easy for sure but you feel you have given adequate time and he and can't "grow" as a person.

 

[hylas]

I think you made the right decision.

 

[medic1]

You summed it up perfectly in your post.
1. He is divorced with children.
2. He is more than happy to be intimate, in a private setting.
3. He is still deep in the closet.
4. You have explained in detail your own feelings and desires.
5. You have been with him for 2 years, but this has been going on for one.
6. He keeps making not just any promise, but the most important one for you
7. He has never followed through with this promise.
8. You asked him not to contact you, if he had any intention of, and i am sorry, being anything but a fuck-buddy, he would have.
9. He is more than happy having the amazing sex, without the commitment you are wanting.
10. You are doing the right thing, it will be emotional, but move on.

 

[medic1]

^Forgot to add, a note saying he misses you does not count, i read that as he misses the amazing sex.

 

[palbert]

You summed it up perfectly in your post.
1. He is divorced with children.
2. He is more than happy to be intimate, in a private setting.
3. He is still deep in the closet.
4. You have explained in detail your own feelings and desires.
5. You have been with him for 2 years, but this has been going on for one.
6. He keeps making not just any promise, but the most important one for you
7. He has never followed through with this promise.
8. You asked him not to contact you, if he had any intention of, and i am sorry, being anything but a fuck-buddy, he would have.
9. He is more than happy having the amazing sex, without the commitment you are wanting.
10. You are doing the right thing, it will be emotional, but move on.

Well said.

 

[medic1]

^I am happy that you have steered yourself in the right direction..............

 

[medic1]

I too am a Glaswegian, i now live and work in the Capital. Not all of us are incapable of loving another man....