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I am SOOOO EMBARRASED :(

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I have a crush on my friends co worker...so me and the friend talk openly about my crush on his co worker when we text...so thats what we were doing..i was asking him if he wanted to go to magic mountain and he asked me could he bring someone and i said sure and then he said im not inviting him (the coworker i like) and we played back and forth cos i said i was mad at him cos he knows im in love with his coworker and he better invite him...and he was like no im not gonna invite him...this went on for like 10 texts...

so minutes later i continued the conversation only to find out that my friend didnt know what i was talking about as if he had missed the whole convo...and then he said, Oh _____(my crush, his coworker) had his phone the whole time and was responding as if he were my friend!!! and i know his coworker really did have his phone because he takes my friends phone all the time and plays with it...so now, im SO embarrased now...i think hes straight anyways, but its like how can i hang out with him now that he knows???? im so upset i dont even know what to say. :(
 
That's a rough situation. I would just lie low for awhile, just long enough for this to blow over. Then, you can try hanging out with him. If he brings it up, just calmly explain the situation. Things like this need to be handled calmly and maturely. Just be careful around him for awhile.
 
yeah my first reaction has been to hide in fear...but my friend has my back through thick and then so hed let that bastard rot before he did anything to me or treated me like crap when we all hang out...but the thing is the coworker is not at ALL like the homophobic type and he was playing along quite well in the texts so he must not have been that upset or shocked...but i think natuarally ill stay away from him till it blows over like you say.
 
Yeah, it good to have a friend that can help you in this situation. You just need to stay down. Maybe your crush will take it well. That would be awesome if he did.
 
this could be the lack of sleep talking but couldn't you just tell him you thought you were talking to your friend. He doesn't know you weren't joking with your friend. I think laying low will make you look more guilty then you actually are... by the way this guy knows your gay right?
 
Shame on the crush for impersonating your friend! Those little games cause just this sort of thing. I'd be pretty upset with him. He needs to learn that that's not funny at all. However, since you said he's not the homophobic type maybe he'll be cool about the whole thing. It will work out in time.
 
Well if he exchanged 10 messages with you pretending to be your friend doesn't that mean he was having fun with it? If he was put off you'd think he would have given the phone back, or stopped kidding around. Doesn't mean he's into you but he probably at least won't be uncomfortable about it. ??
 
Artisticboy89 said:
this could be the lack of sleep talking but couldn't you just tell him you thought you were talking to your friend. He doesn't know you weren't joking with your friend. I think laying low will make you look more guilty then you actually are... by the way this guy knows your gay right?
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I cant fully understand wat ur saying :confused:...and while EVERYONE knows im gay, im not sure if he knows because he just joined our set of friends and ive only met him about three months ago. I mean he MUST know now, but before this i assume he didnt know.

Jasoncurs said:
Shame on the crush for impersonating your friend! Those little games cause just this sort of thing. I'd be pretty upset with him. He needs to learn that that's not funny at all.
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Yeah its very rude...and im just the tip of the iceberg...wat if my friend had personal information on there or sumone sent them a really personal text? my friend has to get with it and stop letting his coworker take his phone!!

MoltenRock said:
Better yet, stop carrying on conversations via text message.
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I'll stop texting when you stop using JUB. :D

kramer362 said:
Well if he exchanged 10 messages with you pretending to be your friend doesn't that mean he was having fun with it? If he was put off you'd think he would have given the phone back, or stopped kidding around. Doesn't mean he's into you but he probably at least won't be uncomfortable about it. ??
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Yeah thats what im assuming, its like if he was like freaked out by it he would stopped by the first message. as long as it turns out hes not uncomfortable then all will be fine i suppose. guess i have to wait and see !oops!
 
Just own up. Say "Wow, that was embarassing to find out I was talking to you the whole time." And see how he responds. :)

Lex
 
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