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I am trying to break up with my girlfriend.

Hotswimguy82

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She lives 2,000 miles away. We have met before. She already has a plane ticket to visit me next month, which is what is complicating everything. She makes me miserable in the worst of ways. She is OBSESSED with me, immature, annoying, nymphomanic, and she has a vagina. I thought it could work, but I was kidding myself. I need a man in my life. This was a painful but necessary trial run, and in the 3 long weeks we've been dating, I've realized that I can never be with a woman. This was apparent when she sent me a picture of herself topless yesterday and I had zero desire to masturbate to it.

Just thought I would vent somewhere. The break-up is likely going down tonight before I head home for Thanksgiving break, and it isn't going to be pretty. There are mutual friendships involved. I know I'll be a much happier person when this is all over, though.
 
Well I was in your shoes once, and it is not a fun feeling. You have to do it and you have to be happy for one thing, and you have to be yourself!
Good luck! I know you can do it!
 
I hope it doesn't go that bad. It takes balls to do what you're doing and I'm glad about it, best of luck.
 
You need to be honest and just tell her that this is not going to work.

Do this b4 she waste time and more money to get here. Let her deal with it as hard as it may be.

Just tell her you are sorry , but things have changed in your goals in life and you can't do this.

If you don't she could land at your door step and it will get worse.

You can always do it Joe Jonas why and send a text, voice mail. But you better get it done fast b4 it's to late..

Good luck
 
^LOL.

She knew about my sexuality before we started dating... A few days after we started dating, we started talking about it more and she became very uneasy, saying that she found it "so weird". It was a very uncomfortable conversation, and it was at that point I knew this wouldn't work out because I felt a need to "hide" it from her so as to not make her uncomfortable. Fuck that shit.
 
Well, that didn't go as terribly as I anticipated it might. I just really want to put this behind me and move forward in life. Thanks for the support, everyone.
 
Congratulations! That was a very mature thing to do. (*8*)
 
Well, that didn't go as terribly as I anticipated it might. I just really want to put this behind me and move forward in life. Thanks for the support, everyone.
Congratulations. I hope people in a similar predicament find this thread.
 
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