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I Came Out

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This afternoon I had one of the most unpleasant moment of my life. I was talking to my sister on the phone and after having usual sibling bla blas, she remembered that once I told her I had a secret, which I eventually did not tell. This time she pumped me and kept guessing until the thing had to come out. My heart was pounding so hard as if it was drilling holes in my chest and my hands were shaking like crazy. But she took it well. And my heart feel so much lighter now.

I admit, it is very hard to come out to relatives (even harder for me because she pumped me). But once you tell somebody you trust, it stops eating you away from inside. I encourage all those willing to come out. Once you feel you are prepared, take a deep breath and say what is on your heart.
 
The story puts a smile in my face, I'm happy for you.

I'm thinking of coming out to my brother soon. :)
 
I am glad you feel that a burden has been lifted. I hope your sister appreciates how hard it was for you to share that secret with her. A lot of possibilities are now open to you because you are becoming who you were meant to be.
 
Congratulations! The first person I told was my sister also and she's been very supportive so I know exactly how it feels, I'm glad it went well for you :-)
 
Well done, the first one is tough, but it gets easier. I completly remeber the great feeling of lightness I felt afterwards to!
 
thats good to hear, congrats, im gonna tell my sister soon too :eek:. not the very first, but definitely the scariest so far.
 
Good man, the first step, and the hardest one. Now begin the journey to be yourself. No point in living other people's lives when you can live your own better.
 
Thank you guys. I still feel a little embarrassed and certainly will even more when I see her next time, but this feeling will disappear after a few days. I hope.

Oufff!!!
 
Oh I felt the same with my family when I came out and had to come out to my aunts and uncles etc. But it will lift u may freak out a bit about doing it but its the right thing. Luckly my family couldn't care less they just want me to be happy and have seen a great change in me now I'm no longer carrying this thing around.
 
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