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Im new to the forum and I have a question. There's a new guy at work that I met a month ago, I like him, the usual story, but I can't tell if he wants to get down and dirty. The very first time I met him was at after work drinks in a bowling alley and I was telling everyone a very lively story. From the corner of my eye though I could see and hear him ask one of my work colleagues if I was gay. She burst out laughing and said no, so obviously I am not out, but I rarely get asked if I am gay so that was the first big signal for me.
Since then he's really made an effort to become friends with me, compared with anyone else in our office, wants to meet up for drinks and clubs and all, and seems to let his guard down around me more than anyone else.
I like him but I can't tell if he likes me, there are some red flags, like he has never had a girlfriend because he has never found the girl that is perfect, I've seen loads of girls interested in him and he talks to them at first but its like he just loses interest and doesnt call them back, if we go out clubbing he always invites me to sleep at his in the taxi back from town..I told him about a threesome I had a long time back with two girls, and now he always asks if I want to find a girl and we can have a threesome together.
I like him, he seems very comfortable around me, but is he dropping hints? I kinda assumed he was straight but with these signals is he making a pass at me? I'm not out which makes it harder. Should I make a move? I don't want to be wrong about this 'cause its a small company and everyone would find out if didn't work out. What do you think? How can I make a move?
Help!! It's not just a crush for me....I really have feelings for him, the doesn't happen a lot to me...
Im new to the forum and I have a question. There's a new guy at work that I met a month ago, I like him, the usual story, but I can't tell if he wants to get down and dirty. The very first time I met him was at after work drinks in a bowling alley and I was telling everyone a very lively story. From the corner of my eye though I could see and hear him ask one of my work colleagues if I was gay. She burst out laughing and said no, so obviously I am not out, but I rarely get asked if I am gay so that was the first big signal for me.
Since then he's really made an effort to become friends with me, compared with anyone else in our office, wants to meet up for drinks and clubs and all, and seems to let his guard down around me more than anyone else.
I like him but I can't tell if he likes me, there are some red flags, like he has never had a girlfriend because he has never found the girl that is perfect, I've seen loads of girls interested in him and he talks to them at first but its like he just loses interest and doesnt call them back, if we go out clubbing he always invites me to sleep at his in the taxi back from town..I told him about a threesome I had a long time back with two girls, and now he always asks if I want to find a girl and we can have a threesome together.
I like him, he seems very comfortable around me, but is he dropping hints? I kinda assumed he was straight but with these signals is he making a pass at me? I'm not out which makes it harder. Should I make a move? I don't want to be wrong about this 'cause its a small company and everyone would find out if didn't work out. What do you think? How can I make a move?
Help!! It's not just a crush for me....I really have feelings for him, the doesn't happen a lot to me...
