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Don't feel bad she will come around eventually ... it's always weird for a good friend to adjust to something new after having thought something about you for such a long time
 
Maybe she fancied you herself and now you have pissed on her bonfire! At least she wasn't hostile.
 
Ryder11 said:
So, I came out to my roommate tonight, we were drinking, were at a gay club of all places, so I thought it would be fitting...well, my roommate just looked at me, and the rest of the night was awkward and we are now in our own rooms.
I don't feel like I have weight lifted off my shoulders, or overly happy like everyone else feels. I feel like I've made the wrong decision. She wasn't outright angry, or said anything bad, it was the fact she said nothing! We met a cute overly flamboyant guy in the line, and his straight friend, and asked me my sexuality, and I lied and said I was straight..well that was killing me inside the club, so I decided to come clean. I also guarantee the guy didn't believe me. Bah...I feel like I'm going to regret saying anything
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It very well could be that she had hopes you'd become her boyfriend. Lot's of girls like gay guys (even though they don't know the guy is gay) just because that many gay guys (not all of course) are friendly, understanding, and good listeners to the girls in their life.
I know that for a fact man.
Just remember you did nothing wrong... You were honest... probably had a bit too much to drink, but all in all you said what had been on your mind for a long time.

Give her some time.... if she is a true friend she will accept you for who you really are. And if she's just sad cause she now knows you are gay and won't be her b/f, well that is something that she will have to get over.... nothing you can nor should do about it. It's her decision. If shes a good friend she will stick by you and if she doesn't... well then you know she wasn't that great a friend after all.
 
Chill out, it's done now. Things will settle. Best of luck. No regrets eh.
 
Another vote for what Trawler said. She doesn't realize it, but she's just being selfish. Temporarily, one hopes.
 
It's a girl. why would she have any problem with you being gay? unless, of course, she secretly had a thing for you!
 
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