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I feel lonely.

CochondeMontreal

CochondeMontreal

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Do you guys know where to meet other guys to chat? I don't know if it's the quarantine or life in general that has me feeling very lonely and needing to talk to someone.
 
Hi Cochon,
if you want to meet people to chat or make friends, the best thing is look for a group or organization that interests you for what they do. It can be a hobby, a sport, learning something... If you meet people you have something in common with, you have something to start. That's just for making friends, but chances are that some of the people are gay, too. I've been reading this advice for years and never believed that... until it worked for me.
Recently during the quarantine I've been going back to dating apps and it really sucks. It seems that guys can only send pics and ask if you're interested, but they can't chat. After all they are complete strangers and I don't share anything with them other than being gay. So if this is your first option, maybe it isn't a good one.
Be patient (*8*)
 
Thanks man, I appreciate the reply. Yeah, the apps suck. No one wants to actually talk and get to know each other. So many of those guys are just one syllable reply.
 
This isn't the most traveled part of JUB, go jump in at hot topics, lots of guys there to talk to.
 
You should use the quarantine to self-reflect if you haven't done so already. It's your life so you can do as you please, but the men I would consider to have deep emotional issues are the men who during this time refuse to be alone, continue to hook up with people off of dating apps, continue to go out (some with and without masks) and continue to act like nothing is wrong with them and nothing major is going on in the world. These are straight, bi and gay men that I personally know in real life. I'm not judging at all because I've been doing lots of self-reflecting too, but now is a good time to take a break, step back and self-reflect. Hint, you don't self-reflect by meeting new people to help you put aside the work you need to do yourself for yourself, nor is it a good idea to use new people to help you with emotional labor that you need to sort on your own.
 
TX-Beau said:
This isn't the most traveled part of JUB, go jump in at hot topics, lots of guys there to talk to.
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Play around in fun and games too. There's a lot of fun guys there that will be willing to be quick online friends.
 
Alistair said:
Play around in fun and games too. There's a lot of fun guys there that will be willing to be quick online friends.
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Hi CochondeMontreal,
Alistair is not only a stud but a 100% right. I have been bored and lonely as well and didn't know about this fun and games section. Its a great way to entertain oneself!
 
Cochonde is a great guy fun to talk to! Plus he is incredibly H-O-T!!
 
Hi @cochondemontreal,

I definitely agree with the sentiment that the quarantine lockdown, working from home, and general isolation can take a toll on your social life. I find reconnecting with past friends is incredibly fulfilling, even if it's just catching up on how they're doing or what's new in their lives.
 
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