I feel so down

[karledice]

Sorry guys, everytime something happends that brings me down, I come here and wrte about it.

So today, one of my friends, well, we're considered as "friends" told me the hardest thing. He's not interested.

I know it desn't sound like a big deal but it breaks my heart. We've been "haging out" for a couple of days in the summer. I left for a while and came back and hung out a little bit more. We've slept together and kinda had sex before. It pains me so much because I truly have feelings for him. I don't have sex with anything that comes over. I asked him if there's a possibility that we might date and he said yes...

Anyways, I feel so sad and down. I's sopping and writting. He wants to be friends but I dunno...if I can handle that.

So sad......

 

[screwnutty]

Hey Karledice.

I know what your going through and trust me...it's going to hurt like hell for awhile. I've been there. I have the battle scars (mentally) to prove it. But what doesn't kill us only makes us stronger. He wasn't "the one" for you. Your one is still out there! So that's something worth looking for!

Now then as for the be friends....you could do that, but I suggest you hang apart from each other for awhile...until your over the rejection. But remember that Friends means just that...friends. Don't fall back into the trap again!

Anyways that's my advice but I'm sure that the other jubber's here will give you adviced that I may have missed or something even better! But for what it's worth I hope this helped you just a little bit!



there you go...not turn that frown, upside down!

 

[SilverRRCloud]

Dude,

This has happened to all of us. Probably more times than we care to remember.

Sad as it may be, accept the fact that this other dude has his own vision of happiness and that you might not be a part of it.

Wish him all the best and do it frankly and honestly. Tell yourself you still love him enough to let him go and find his own luck, wherever this other guy(s) might be.

You have got a life a to live and you ought to be taking care of it. So, it is the time to move on again.

Kiss him good bye and never look back.

SC

 

[GayBoyKellyCfan]

Aww, babe, that sucks. Happened to me so many times, PM me if ya need to talk.

 

[BoSoxFanVa]

This has happened to me a few times too. I don't take rejection well and end up in a tailspin listening to sappy love songs and wondering, Why me?

Whenever I get into a situation like this, I find a project (anything) and put all my efforts in this. The distraction usually helps me and I feel good that I accomplished something.

Surround yourself with friends and keep reaching out. You found a great support group here. Hope you feel better soon.

 

[Christopher123]

Add me to the list of "been there and done that." I fall in love too easily. Sometimes I wish I could just turn it off. But then if we did that, we'd just be cold shells.

Hope you feel better soon

 

[karledice]

Thank you guys so much. I couldn't sleep last night. I ended up sleeping for an hour and then going to work at 7am. I screwed up badly at work cause I couldn;t focus lol. I'm so glad to hear I'm not the only one and other people share my feelings. THanks guys I can always let everything out on this forum.

I might stay away from him for a while till this feelings gets away...it might take a while...but I'll be strong

hugz everyone...

 

[Andreus]

people grow

that is healthy

sometimes they grow in different directions

that is never permanent if they are living and experiencing

you never know if the future will bring you back together

 

[Christopher123]

I might stay away from him for a while till this feelings gets away...it might take a while...but I'll be strong

I don't know that being around him is going to help you (so keeping your distance for a bit might be a good idea), but I know how hard it is to stay away.

You're gonna be okay

 

[teh_nathan]

I recommend for anyone who's down, a healthy dose of hugs.
*hugs*

I don't know if I'd be able to handle that either.