I feel weird asking this

[jxbryant]

first thread on jub.anyone have a pain fetish?I frequently get off from pain.its kinda weird that i find pain hot.im an extremely quiet,conservative guy.

 

[massage-bear]

My play partner has an intense fetish for pain, especially ball pain/torture. Not sure who enjoys it more: me punching/stretching/squeezing/flogging his industrial-strength nuts or him, but it is the only way he can cum - so guess it's him.

 

[Telstra]

Sorry, i don't understand the psychology of pain fetish.
Please explain.

 

[massage-bear]

Sorry, i don't understand the psychology of pain fetish.
Please explain.

Have you ever had a deep-tissue massage? It's therapeutic but also mildly painful. Guess it's cuz of the endorphins produced. Have worked on/given bodyrubs to more than 600 men. You'd be surprised at how many of them have asked for rough treatment.

Have to admit I was surprised at how much I enjoy being the pain-giver.

Admittedly I cannot understand how my friend can crave getting his nuts tortured. I'm sure a lot of it is a psychological-submission thing, but with regards to cravings to experience excruciating pain, that's something I'm interested in hearing about, too.

 

[Telstra]

deep-tissue massage is different and it has health benefits.

But pain like bashing people up .... that's just ...???

 

[Tightnwhite]

I like it when a guy bites into my shoulder/neck while he's fucking me from behind

Pain makes you feel like you're alive and human...that you're here.

 

[subobj]

People who get turned on by pain are generally called masochists. The concept/word has been around for a very long time. I'm amazed that some people think it's something either modern or even unprecedented.

Coming to terms with BEING a masochist is another matter. It's not necessarily easy -- the realization almost inevitably comes with a certain amount of emotional shock.

 

[RedRooster]

first thread on jub.anyone have a pain fetish?I frequently get off from pain.its kinda weird that i find pain hot.im an extremely quiet,conservative guy.

Some pain during sex can be very erotic and add a whole new exotic experience to sex and pain definitely adds to and intensifies the orgasm. However, as long as you don't go too far and start drawing blood or cause irreversible damage to the soft tissues of the penis.

Be very careful, you're playing a very dangerous game with your body which can easily get out of hand especially if you use any "mood enhancers" while having sex.

"Everything in moderation", too much of a good thing always has adverse consequences.

If you wanna discuss it further send me a Private Message and I'll respond.

 

[jxbryant]

i dont want to sound like a manwhore because im still a virgin.im still pretty active in sports and getting hit or hurt is a thrill to me

 

[CallMeHTD]

The pain, when controlled, can be highly erotic and wonderful. Spanking, for example: Typically, you start of wit the smallest of stings until gradually you are getting full-out whupped. In this sort of play, it's best if the activity itself is discussed beforehand, rules esteblished and a "safety word" chosen in the person experiencing the pain feels like it's getting to be too much.

 

[IrishBilly]

im a masocist i love pain sometimes need it sexually, in a way thats not easy to explain .

 

[nyguy4000]

I like having a cockring on and having my balls slapped. Also nipple pinching during sex can be hot too!

 

[hottmale4male]

i definitely do...i have fantasies about being someones slave