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I finally did it...

LilVirgin

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hey guy's sorry if i posted the old topic in the "Show Yourself" topics but i wanted to let you know that i come out from the closet and i talked to someone i know and he is gay and he was cool with it.. though i wish i did it in person because talking online seems a bit weird when i decided to come out.... but yeah i finally did and i feel lighter :)... but now i need to talk to my family about this and i'm still scared ugh:(...
 
LilVirgin: Congratulations! It gets easier as time goes on. The first person I told was an uncle, and I told him over facebook.... basically because he's gay and was somewhat "disowned" by my father after coming out about 20 years ago and he lives on the other side of the country. I sort of felt like I took the easy way out, but I know that I did what was right FOR ME. You have to do what is right FOR YOU!

After you finally tell yourself who you are, and as you venture out and start telling other people, it will get so much easier! Family is a big hurdle, and I completely understand your hesitations, but just remember to do it when you're ready, and not a moment sooner. I remember before I came out to my parents and siblings I always said: "I don't know when the right time will be, but I know when is not the right time." And that's the only thing you need to remember. Do it at your own pace on your own schedule.

Congratulations again, and keep us posted! We're all very excited for you, and proud of you!
 
I think I answered your other (same) topic. I'll post it here again:

Well done. It's not you who's on the spotlight. It's your family, any reaction that will come from them must be understood. Even if they'd might look upset, they need their time.
Congratz.
 
i remember your other thread that you made where you were thinking about it. i'm happy for you that you decided to tell someone, and trust me, it does get easier telling people. eventually, after you get passed telling your parents, it might even become pretty casual with new people you meet.

keep us updated with who you tell next :D
 
it was hard for me but once I did it I was so relieved. Now its no big deal. I have no problem telling anyone. It's not that I go screaming it to the world or when I meet someone I don't say "hi, I'm Steven. Im gay." however if the topic comes up or we start talking about relationships or something Im not afraid to say it.


that will come with time and the more you do it. the more comfortable it will become. for now take it slow and tell others when your ready. the hardest part is out of the way. you've admitted it to yourself. For a lot of people our families already know or suspect. they are just waiting for us to open up about it. you may be surprised by their reaction.

good luck and congratulations. I'm very happy for you

Steven.
 
thanks guy's for the congratulations:)... right now i'm about to tell my dad and fuck my heart is racing so fast!!!..
edit: i finally told my dad and now some of the weight is gone now!!... god i was so scared...
 
hughmc said:
and your Dad's reaction was? that is just as important as you having told him.(*8*)
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He had no reaction:) that's the best part, he got friends who's gay and is nephew Is Gay and it doesn't bothering having a son gay and he said to me that i want to be happy... i cried when he said that and he hugged me:)
 
awwww


that is amazing. im very happy that your father accepted you without a second thought.
 
I am so happy for you; you had a lot of guts to tell your Dad and he is to be admired for telling you that all he wants is for you to be happy. I predict that your relationship with your Dad will be strengthened by this move and that your love and understanding of each other will grow. Just don't do anything wild or crazy and risk all you have now gotten from your Dad; remember he loves you and he trusts you. And I love you for doing what you did(*8*)
 
thank you guy's you don't know what a relief this is... I'm still shaking up about the whole thing and it's like a dream but it's not... i even ask him if it was alright that i jerk off to guy's and he had no reaction and i was like what the hell:badgrin: thanks JUB for helping me out:D
 
Congrats to you. Isn't that lighter feeling wonderful? I think it's great you live in a country with legal same sex marriage, at least the entire population, even the conservatives, realize you have legal status.

I wish you luck and joy on your journey.
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