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I guess I was wrong

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frolundastep

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I've been chasing this guy (my best friend) for couple of months now.I must admit I wasn't completly honest with him like most of the members of this community suggest.I never had courage to admit that I like him,but I was constantly dropping hints to him.I'm just interested in your opinion here:
Your friend tells you that his bi curious and a week later he invites you at his place to watch some porn and jerk together.What would you think?????Isn't that obvious???
Is there any chance that he likes me but he's as scared as I to admit?
Do I need to wear a t-shirt that says "I want to suck my best friend"??????
Yes I know i should tell him directly,but after this event I'm even more confused.
First i think I was wrong here,i do beleve he's at least curious about man,but I guess I'm not his type.So I'm probably done with him.I don't want to sound selfish but I think I've crossed my half of the bridge and now I think that if he likes me is his turn.
Here's another question by the way:Why did he agree to came at my place and jerk with me???
Thank you for reading this
 
frolundastep said:
Here's another question by the way:Why did he agree to came at my place and jerk with me???
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Because:
  • He's a guy.
  • He was horny.
  • And you were a sure thing.

Guys do it to girls all the time.

If the girls let them, that is.

So, if you continue this you go into it with the knowledge that one or both of you is using the other for NSA sex.
 
And you were a sure thing?????
Sorry I don't understand.
He's taking advantage of me??????
 
You might try getting to know him as a friend. Friends have a way of becoming more than just friends.

And, friends do try to show their affection for one another. It should be very natural and seem right if the bond between you is strong.

When it happens be sure to allow yourself some time in the afterglow to tell each other what yous were meaning to communicate by the sexual.

Work on the relationship; the sex which emerges from that will be of the gold standard and will get better with each repeat.
 
Since when is jacking off together a sign? Even straight teens do it, it doesn't mean they have the hots for each other or want to get in each other's pants. It could be he wanted to see how he stacked up to another guy and felt comfortable enough with you to assume you wouldn't judge. Does every friendship HAVE to be about sex?
 
Oh for heaven's sakes.

If you want to fuck him, tell him.

Tell him he makes you hot.

Offer to give him a bj, because only a guy knows what another guy likes.

Just be prepared to give up the friendship aspect of your relationship though, unless you're going to fall madly deeply in love with one another.
 
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