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I had sex for my first time! + STD?

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Hi boys,

I wanted to share with you the fact that I'm not virgin any more... at least as a top.

So, I had this dude in msn from some time, and we talked three or four times in the last few months... so we agreed to meet Friday night. I told my parents I was going out with a friend of mine (1st note: I *hate* lying to my mum, but I had to...) and I went to meet this boy, 28 y-o. He came to pick me up and we went to his home (2nd note: I don't usually go to people's home, I like meeting them in public places before, but in some ways I trusted him).

So at home he took a shower and then I joined him... we sucked each other, I rimmed him a bit, we kissed, then we went to bed and I got inside him (3rd note: I was wearing a condom)

So, these are my comments:
1: Kissing (it was my first ever): nothing special. He had a not-so-good breathe and it was a bit irruent... but anyway... I hope my next kisses will be A LOT BETTER!
2: Sucking: nothing special, but it was awesome seeing him enjoy my mouth.
3: Being sucked: it was... wow! It felt really good
4: Fucking: i didn't felt a lot of pleasure, I mean, sometimes *it* popped out and once he said it to me and I was like "Really??" ;-) LOL. Maybe because it was my first time, maybe because the condom gives me sensations I am not used to feel, my dick was not totally hard while fucking... But anyway it was so hot when I got all inside him and he moaned in pleasure very loud and also when we came together was sooo hot!

After that we stayed in bed for a bit and talked, then he gave me a ride to the railway station.

So, finally I can say that it was not a bad experience. Not the best, but I expected it being so. I am surprised that I was able to suck, rim, and fuck him without having a lot of erection problems, I was surprised that I was not trembling as I did for the whole day, and I have to say that I enjoyed him sucking me and the orgasm even though I was not totally into this boy. I mean, while fucking I was thinking to things like "Oh, it is my first time!" or "Well, he's not my type, how long should I go on pumping?" LOL

Anyway, I had my first, he seemed a cool guy, it could have been a lot worse!

Now I don't know if I will meet him again, or how much time I'll wait before having sex again. I some ways the experience gave me the idea that maybe, maybe, hook up is not for me.. but I'm not sure, if I think about the BJ i really want to have more and more ;-) And I wanna try sex with hotter boys LOL


HELP
:help:
Now I'm just a bit worried... I'm not in panic, but... in my throat I feel something and... you know when you have to swallow and something is blocked there? Like when you have a cold and mucus is there? For now I am sprying a disinfectant, hoping it is nothing serious.. if in some days it will not go away, I'll go to the doctor. Maybe it is nothing, maybe I am just irritated because I tried to take him all in my mouth (just for little time, but... who knows?).

The big problem is... my parents! How can I tell my mum that I have to visit the doctor? She does not know I had sex, and of course I don't wanna her to know... and we usually go to the doctor together... uhm, well, maybe it's time to go alone... :-) I'll manage to do it!

ADVICE! Do you think it is an STD?
 
yeah, I really hope... I mean it seems to be down in my throat, but maybe it on the end on the tongue... and I did not sucked him for a lot, but I tried to deep throat and risked to vomit ;-) so it can be.

sdt services?`I have to check if in switzerland they exist! I know there are places for pregnant women, but...

thanks and sorry for posting it in the wrong forum! I didn't realize ;-)
 
I don't know what the other guy looks like, but he sure lucked out when he got to score with you! You're one hot dude! Congratulations -- it will only get better and better. (*8*)
 
It sounds like it went well for you. No major anxiety, the guy was nice and considerate, no performance issues, and you liked some of it. I think that's pretty good for a first experience. :)

If you date someone, it gets better. That is because you are totally comfortable with them and have all the time in the world to adjust your technique and try little variations, looking for what works best for you. So generally speaking, relationship sex is better.

It is definitely time for you to start going to the doctor by yourself. You need your own relationship with the doctor and this is a good example of why. More than likely, you got some bruising on the throat from trying to deep throat him. That should go away in a few days. If it doesn't see your doctor.

I think you're pretty smart to use this forum this way. What a great idea, to talk about your first experience and how it went for you. ..|
 
It's probably not an STD. Did you deep throat him (or attempt to)? That might also cause throat pain.
Overall sounds like you had fun (not as much as you would have hoped for but still fun).
Maybe i'm just the over cautious type but i'd recommend more caution in the future regarding meetups with people you've met online (specially for sex).
 
Riverrick said:
If you date someone, it gets better. That is because you are totally comfortable with them and have all the time in the world to adjust your technique and try little variations, looking for what works best for you. So generally speaking, relationship sex is better.
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No questions about that!!! :D And it's not just sex then, it's love making!!! :p
 
Good for you (!) :gogirl: :wave:

I wouldn't worry about the sore throat unless it doesn't go away in a few days.

The following is for future reference and not because I think your experience warrants it.

There are a couple of places close to you where you can get an anonymous HIV test, one in Lugano and one in Mendrisio: http://www.ti.ch/dss/DSP/SezS/temi/cpf/sos.htm

I don't know about testing for other STD's, but I think you will be stuck with your own doctor. While you won't need your mother's permission to make an appointment and go see him, she will eventually get the bill in the mail and ask you about it. !oops!
 
3nipple, thanks!
and thanks to all of you!

yeah, I did not make it clear, that I tried to take him all in my throat and I quite had gag reflex, so I stopped.

Maybe is this that caused my problem? Today it hurted a littl sometimes.
I am not worried for hiv.
Just as you said, 3, my parents will receive the bill... hey, I'll wait some days and then I'll see. If it is the case, I'll tell the trith to my mum... better this than being sick ;-)

But I'm opmistist, anyway, maybe it will go away.

thanks guys!
 
This is kind of off-topic, but why are your parents receiving your medical bills even though you're an adult?
 
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dear dr,
I don't know how the medical assurances work in the usa... but here in switzerland they put together the family memebers. Of course the mail has my name on it, but I never "cared" to pay it. It is usually my mother that does that. No big deal! If it does not go away, I'll tell the truth and amen ;-)
 
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