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i hate my "best" friend!

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i know this guy for 7 years.we were best friends.nobody would talk yo him until he became my friend.he was overexcited and was always worshiping me.they became best friends with my brother too.now he is at university and lives a bit far away from me.
he changed totally!
on thurstday we went with my brother to visit him.he is on a diet and had nothing eatable in the house.so we didnt eat anything.he went to bed at 11 o'clock and then woke us up at 8 in the morning and draged us to his university.we didnt have anything for breakfast.then,he send us away from the lesson cos he wanted to impress the professors.we had to wait for him until 5 o'clock in the cold,he didnt give us the keys to go home.
then he made us walk to his house that was far away.
then we aet a hamburger.


he slept and woke up when his cousin came.his cousin is great and asked us if we want to go for a walk,but my friend said that if we'd come back late he wouldnt open the door.he went to bed at 12 o'clock and he send his cousine away.

he was not like that.now we dont fit as friends any more,what shall i do?
 
Tell him. That's what friends are for... And you guys seem to be the best of friends / really close. So it's juts normal / right to tell him what's wrong.
 
i tell him,but he says he has to study much and to wake up early.he wants to be a good student,he says.the thing is he doesnt study and isnt a good student either but still has this programm.its like he is an other person.
 
Trying to be a good student is no excuse for being a bad host. I don't think I would visit him again. Maybe things will get better when he is done with school...
 
From what you told us, I don't think I would bother with him anymore. You have better things to do then to be trashed like that.
 
i think so too,but my brother says that we were so close in the past and i cant drop an old friend.but you know i wanna live and he doesnt right,should i tell him that im gonna be his friend anymore or just leave him there without saying anything?
it makes me sad though cos we had great times once.
 
Sometimes close friendships come to an end. It's sad, but that's life...
 
but he knows many of my secrets.should i tell him that everything is over or not?
 
You don't have to completely end it. Just establish some rules. And start speaking up. Tell him what is wrong.

If he won't agree to thinking about your needs also when you get together, then I'd say to start distancing yourself from him.

Unfortunately not all friendships are made for a lifetime.
 
Yea, I agree with what has been said. I don't think you have to actually tell him that you don't want to be friends anymore, just start distancing yourself from him. But I do think a friend will treat guest a little better!!
 
thanks guys,he did something new now.my brother did his assignment and now he is yelling at him cos my brother told it to his cousin.
is it normal that i hate him?
 
People in college can be good students without being completely uncompromising and rude to their guests.

One of the things about college is that it's far more flexible than high school. You can miss lectures. You can study whenever you want. You can talk to professors to catch up. You don't need to impress your professors. Most of the time, your professors don't know you, don't care, and will never know you. And you have oodles of time to have a life outside of classes.

I think your 'friend' is neurotic and if he's not inconsiderate and really doesn't care about your friendship, then he's just too stupid to realize what being a good student requires and doesn't require in college.

But if he's not stupid, then he really is a jerk and doesn't care about you two enough to warrant your being friends with him.

Just phase him out. Don't say anything and forget about him. If he really cares about you guys, he'll come searching for you eventually and even then, you're under no obligation to hang out with him.
 
my vote is to let this 'friendship drift AWAY.

sounds like the only thing he didn't do was tell you to your face to get out of his space, say nothing, do nothing. if the 'friendship' was that strong, let him make the moves. (just don't hold your breath 'cause it ain't gonna happen)
 
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