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So get this. I'm a college student and I'm still in the closet and iit's tearing me to pieces. So tonight I heard of an event that was supposed to be a second prom and jumped on it because I mean who passes up free food. So I'm sitting there with a good friend, a girl that I invited to keep me company, and I see a guy in a dress and I'm like okayyyy. So the girl goes on to tell me that it is a prom for homosexual guys and girls that didn't get to take the person who they wanted and I'm like shit.I turned to my other friend who I came along with and told him and he was like so. It's free food. Well a girl approaches him and asks him was he gay because he has a friend. And I wasn't really sure what he responded. We proceeded to leave and this guy follows us out and starts talking to my guy friend and I'm like what the fuck. The girl that I came with and the guy that I came with to my surprise knew each other better than I though and she pulled me away and was like "it's okay he's bi".... And I'm just there like Wtf because he's actually pretty handsome. Anyway so the girl and I sit down and talk further up campus and then another guy that I met on Jackd comes walking down. I think he's pretty damn cute but, although I consider it every time I see him, i have never had the balls to approach him. So try really hard to get her to go inside so that when she's out of sight I could maybe catch him. It didn't happen because 1 I didn't want to look like a creep and 2 I had no idea what to say since I've never approached a guy outside of an app. Tonight sucked dick and honestly all I can think about is the fact that there is so much more to being gay than those bullshit apps. I'm sad.
 
What are you asking? How to ask a guy out? How to come out? How to be happy? :confused:
 
Advice of any kind is okay. I heard of the event actually because I heard people in the lobby of the dorm hall that I live in was talking about it. They are actually gay friendly (3 of them are gay actually.)
 
So basically you're surrounded by gay people, and you follow them to gay events, but you're not out yourself. I can see how that might be frustrating. But you already know how to resolve all this, don't you?
 
So, to recap- you're in college and you have lots of gay people and gay-friendly people around you... including several of your close friends.

What is holding you back?
 
hi Montebig1,

Thanks for your posting and I can imagine myself that you feel sad that you think that you are still a closeted gay. I would like to suggest, based on what you have told us, that there is no need anymore to pretend that you are straight. Hey man, all people around you are already aware that you don't have 'feelings for girls', meaning that its highly likely that you are gay. Besides that, you are surrounded by other gay guys and by loads of gay friendly people.

I would like to advise you to open yourself, not necessary by telling people that you are gay, but, eg, by telling a handsome gay guy that he is handsome/sweet / he is wearing nice clothes (etc.), or by asking a gay guy on such a prom if he wants to dance with you, or ask a gay guy if he wants to go to the movie with you, or whatever. Please don't freak out when this will happen. For sure, the girls around you will be aware that you don't (seem to) have interest in girls. They don't mind, so why should you?

Great man, that you are a student on a college with alot of other gay guys and with alot of gay friendly people. No need anymore to pretend that you are straight.

Good luck and don't hesitate to ask additional questions.
 
Your world, except for you, appears to be very positive toward being gay. Your failure to accept yourself says you should seek some of the counseling opportunities made available at your school.
 
Are you afraid that your gay friends won't accept you cuz your gay? What is holding you back. It is OK to just put one foot outta the closet especially with your environment.
 
I'm not seeing the obstacles here.

Except that yes. There is way more to being a homo than bullshit apps.
 
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