then why you getting so jealous she don't have what you have and he'll probably be back for more.Some dudes really really dont want to accept that they like guys is so frustrating.So they tend to do anything to prove to themselves that they are not bi/gay
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Why do so many guys lament how much the are "best" friends with someone but when it comes to REALLY talking about feelings, they don't. Sit him down, tell him how you feel, ask him how he feels, bring it all out in the open between you two.
And while I am not usually one for game playing, I don't think it is all that awful to hint to him that someone is interested in you and you him. Sometimes for closeted guys it takes losing something they want to help push them over the edge enough to start dealing with their gay feelings. But beyond that BE HIS FRIEND and talk about this.
And while I am not usually one for game playing, I don't think it is all that awful to hint to him that someone is interested in you and you him. Sometimes for closeted guys it takes losing something they want to help push them over the edge enough to start dealing with their gay feelings. But beyond that BE HIS FRIEND and talk about this.
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if I recall correctly everyone in the narrative is too young to legally drink - that you guys are drinking so much that people don't remember what they said/did the next day is disturbing - yeah I know everyone does it, but that is really dangerous and unhealthy behavior
some guys are just really horny fucks - sounds as if your best friend is - and the number of people now connected in this sexual partnership is more than enough to trouble everyone about STDs and more - but I doubt it is - there is dangerous and unhealthy behavior
he's never going to be your life long partner - read a million threads here on the same theme as yours -
can you have (safe) sex with him (and advise him to have safe sex with others) and not more meaning on it than that? For this guy sex is just sex. Right or wrong, that is what it is to him. He has the right to decide for himself if he wants to be a playa and he obviously wants that very much.
loving your best friend in a non-partnership context is something you have decide if you want - what you do to make that happen is up to you, but if you look for other than that from him you won't get it
invest your emotions relationship wise elsewhere - and I have no moral or ethical judgments on him - he's just a horn dog - who should be practicing safe sex
some guys are just really horny fucks - sounds as if your best friend is - and the number of people now connected in this sexual partnership is more than enough to trouble everyone about STDs and more - but I doubt it is - there is dangerous and unhealthy behavior
he's never going to be your life long partner - read a million threads here on the same theme as yours -
can you have (safe) sex with him (and advise him to have safe sex with others) and not more meaning on it than that? For this guy sex is just sex. Right or wrong, that is what it is to him. He has the right to decide for himself if he wants to be a playa and he obviously wants that very much.
loving your best friend in a non-partnership context is something you have decide if you want - what you do to make that happen is up to you, but if you look for other than that from him you won't get it
invest your emotions relationship wise elsewhere - and I have no moral or ethical judgments on him - he's just a horn dog - who should be practicing safe sex
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If you want him to know you know about Rachel's friend just bring it up without sounding like you're jealous or upset but that you're just talking about it, like "sooo rachel told me...how was it?" Remember you're just friends and if he realizes you're jealous and possesive you will scare him off.
It doesn't help that you're that close to him, you'll never get over him if you see him 24/7.
And if he really is such an asshole that only thinks about himself (which I don't agree with, I think he's just insecure and confused) you shouldn't lower yourself to be his bitch. He should realize you don't need him and that he's not better than you.
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Interestingly I have pretty much the exact same scenario as you except I've never and will never do anything with my best mate. Hes cute so perfect like the definition of Cub and his girlfriend and him have been going out for 4 years. I love this guy like a brother we get each other completely I would do anything for the kid.
However anything doesn't include any kind of sexual relationship, despite the fact I would so badly love to I couldn't I wouldn't I value his friendship too much to do something like that even if he begged me I'd like to think I'd say no still (who knows I know it will never happen though).
Anyway in your case I can see I would of done fairly the exact same things if I ever got with my mate, I'd get jealous and want more badly I know I've done it before with another friend.
What you need to do is think clearly about what will happen, just stop and look at it as a whole and plan it right, i.e. if sex with your friend can continue and you "KNOW" it won't ruin the friendship then your likely going to be able to continue and not ruin your friendship. However if you know it will destroy what you've got or if there's even a little chance it'll ruin it don't keep doing it just stop just make excuses I know it'd be hard but its what you value more, sex that goes no where or your friendship?.
Either way no matter what these people say you will learn from your mistakes and successes, all anyone can do is give you guidance and I know if it were me I wish you the most best of luck, I would more than likely kill myself or live a ever-sad life if I lost my mate, he is a brother too me and it would be too painful.
However anything doesn't include any kind of sexual relationship, despite the fact I would so badly love to I couldn't I wouldn't I value his friendship too much to do something like that even if he begged me I'd like to think I'd say no still (who knows I know it will never happen though).
Anyway in your case I can see I would of done fairly the exact same things if I ever got with my mate, I'd get jealous and want more badly I know I've done it before with another friend.
What you need to do is think clearly about what will happen, just stop and look at it as a whole and plan it right, i.e. if sex with your friend can continue and you "KNOW" it won't ruin the friendship then your likely going to be able to continue and not ruin your friendship. However if you know it will destroy what you've got or if there's even a little chance it'll ruin it don't keep doing it just stop just make excuses I know it'd be hard but its what you value more, sex that goes no where or your friendship?.
Either way no matter what these people say you will learn from your mistakes and successes, all anyone can do is give you guidance and I know if it were me I wish you the most best of luck, I would more than likely kill myself or live a ever-sad life if I lost my mate, he is a brother too me and it would be too painful.
