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I have a question! about a so called straight friend of mine
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Georgiadude
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Is he interested? Quite possibly. He could just be curious about what its like and is comfortable asking you. If I were you, would I make a move? Hell no. He's married and he'd probably freak out afterwards and ruin the friendship. I know you didn't say anything about doing it. I'm just saying I'd let it go and if he asked me to do it Id decline I get a fair number It married guys that hmu and I just tell them I don't get involved with married guys.
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Well if you want my opinion, fwiw....
He probably isn't as straight as you'd think or as straight as he claims to be.
I've had "experiences" with married guys, guys in serious relationships with women that would not exactly fit into the "straight" category, blah, blah, etc.
If he wasn't curious, he wouldn't ask those questions.
If you don't want to eat shit from a sewer, you probably wouldn't ask what the shit from the sewer tastes like...
(not equating sucking to dick to eating shit, I am drawing a parallel to what sucking dick would be like to a genuinely straight guy.)
Also,
my questions for you...
Are you openly gay or something or does he know of your interest in sucking dick?
why did he feel compelled to ask you specifically?
If you aren't interested in sucking his dick and he's comfortable talking about gay shit with you, why does it matter if he is not as straight as you think he is....if he isn't, let him come to grips with his sexuality on his own, in his own way or on his terms.
I honestly don't intend to sound mean, just blunt.
Make sense?
He probably isn't as straight as you'd think or as straight as he claims to be.
I've had "experiences" with married guys, guys in serious relationships with women that would not exactly fit into the "straight" category, blah, blah, etc.
If he wasn't curious, he wouldn't ask those questions.
If you don't want to eat shit from a sewer, you probably wouldn't ask what the shit from the sewer tastes like...
(not equating sucking to dick to eating shit, I am drawing a parallel to what sucking dick would be like to a genuinely straight guy.)
Also,
my questions for you...
Are you openly gay or something or does he know of your interest in sucking dick?
why did he feel compelled to ask you specifically?
If you aren't interested in sucking his dick and he's comfortable talking about gay shit with you, why does it matter if he is not as straight as you think he is....if he isn't, let him come to grips with his sexuality on his own, in his own way or on his terms.
I honestly don't intend to sound mean, just blunt.
Make sense?
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^good to know.
Yeah you can keep answering his questions and it doesn't sound like you are far off from the truth. He sounds similar to some of my friends who claim to be straight but I know have issues with their sexuality. They compensate for their insecurities by being overly macho and feel the need to constantly reinforce how straight they are by wearing t-shirts that say "I love boobies" or making a point to tell everyone, "I'm a ladies man."
You're not wrong in questioning this, just know you do have a choice.
If at some point he does come out and tell you he has some "feelings" or curiosities or whatever, go ahead and talk with him about it and let him confide in you and help him come to terms with whatever he is dealing with. If he does come on to you and ask if he can try something with you and you do not want to be with him sexually, just say so, say no. Tell him he is like a brother to you and you are not interested in him sexually because you are too good of friends and would not want to ruin the friendship with some sort of weird sexual experimentation. You both need to be on the same page for something like that and he is clearly not.
Yeah you can keep answering his questions and it doesn't sound like you are far off from the truth. He sounds similar to some of my friends who claim to be straight but I know have issues with their sexuality. They compensate for their insecurities by being overly macho and feel the need to constantly reinforce how straight they are by wearing t-shirts that say "I love boobies" or making a point to tell everyone, "I'm a ladies man."
You're not wrong in questioning this, just know you do have a choice.
If at some point he does come out and tell you he has some "feelings" or curiosities or whatever, go ahead and talk with him about it and let him confide in you and help him come to terms with whatever he is dealing with. If he does come on to you and ask if he can try something with you and you do not want to be with him sexually, just say so, say no. Tell him he is like a brother to you and you are not interested in him sexually because you are too good of friends and would not want to ruin the friendship with some sort of weird sexual experimentation. You both need to be on the same page for something like that and he is clearly not.
Georgiadude
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I agree with Elmo a hundred percent. If he's sending you pics of guys sucking dick, he's going on line and finding them he's curious and knows he can talk openly with you about it. Theres nothing wrong with talking and answering his questions. If it starts to get uncomfortable then you may have to put a stop to it. He's Def over compensating for his curiosity. Making sure to tell you its gross and wearing the shirt but goes online and sends you pics. Haha. Kinda funny actually
Steven
Steven
My closest friend is 100% straight but is also very open and loves to discuss anything sexual. However, the few gay friends that I have introduced him to often feel that he is giving them mixed messages. One of these guys has even started sending him suggestive texts and attempts to spend time with him alone etc. My straight friend has shared with me that he is becoming extremely annoyed by my gay friend's assumption that he might be bi curious. I finally explained to my straight friend that in reality, gay men are such a small minority and because their dating pool is so limited that many are prone to reach the wrong conclusion regarding his openness about sex. My straight friend said that he has learned an important lesson, which is not to discuss sex with gay guys.
Georgiadude
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I just find it very interesting he sends you pics and knows the terminology then has to be sure you know he's straight to the point of wearing a stupid shirt. Haha. He says he's straight so he's straight. I think his arrow has a few bends in it but he's never going to act on it and if he does don't let it be with you because it will ruin your friendship.
Steven
Steven