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I just found out that my ex's boyfriend is HIV positive.

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saymyname said:
And it scares me to death.

We've been broken up for a year, saw each other again for 2 weeks in October, but then he met his current boyfriend at the end of that month so we stopped. We're still on good terms and I still care about him deeply, I probably always will.....
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Guess what dude, I totally agree with you.
I also know that there are people on this forum who will not agree with you (and with me). You are absolutely right!!!!!! Talk him out of that relationship. A 34 y.o who is HIV+ (no mater on drugs or no, detectable of non detectable) should not really be dating a 18-19 y.o kid.
It's wrong. and your ex is being used by a selfish person no mater how nice he may seem.
 
saymyname, you are definitely not yet over the relationship. And you have no right to make decisions for another adult.
 
rollex_2000 said:
A 34 y.o who is HIV+[..] should not really be dating a 18-19 y.o kid.
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so any other 34y.o. would be ok? geez you must be a nice fellow. i hope you remember your own words if some day, you are the one who gets a contagious disease .. whether because of your own faults or not.

apart from that .. an 18 year old is an adult.
 
Corny is right. Plus, someone who knows he is hiv+ but takes his medication, has a low viral count etc may be safer to romp with than a teen who got infected last weekend, doesn't know it yet, and has a high viral count. Aren't people most infectious the first three months after infection?
 
saymyname said:
I'm sorry for those of you who are taking offense to my post, but those are my beliefs, so deal with it.
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We're not talking about beliefs here. We're talking about facts.

If it is correct that this person has an undetectable viral load AND they use protection, then your ex is correct that the risk to him is quite low.

It's unfortunate that some people in the gay community instantly judge others as despicable people not even worthy of associating with just because they are positive.
 
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