I know this is childish, but I need your opinions

[arc248]

Hi guys, I posted a thread weeks ago, and here is the link if you would read it:

http://justusboys.com/forum/showthread.php?t=133310&highlight=i+hate+playing+games

Anyway, what happened recently, is that this guy will be quitting the job in 2 weeks. After I heard it this evening, that's all I can think about. I feel like time is running out and I should tell him something. Should I? I fell that since he's quitting and I probably will never see him again, it wouldn't hurt too bad. But on the other hand, it would be really embarassing if he rejects me. On top of that, I don't even know what to say to him, so any suggestions would be appreciated. My friend joked, "Just tell him, 'I'll meet you in the backroom in 5 minutes and let's fuck our brains out'."

Today, I "casually" asked him if he has the song "Let Go" by Frou Frou, and he said yes and he would send it to me through AIM. So as soon as I got home today, I downloaded AIM and set up an account (I know, I'm such a loser) and left a friendly message on his myspace. This means, I could still keep in touch even after he left.

Again, this sounds so silly, but on somedays, I can feel something from him, but then I tell myself, "No way, this is just my wishful thinkings."

Yes, I know I'm a loser but please help. Thanks!!!

 

[luminum]

Don't feel foolish. You like him. What you do to try to persue him is dorkish, but no dorkish than any other smitten person would act.

I have personally facebook stalked guys I thought were cute and had to do a shit ton of research just to figure out their last name and I did it.

Someone on this forum said that people spend more time regretting what they didn't do as opposed to what they did. If he rejects you, you may feel embarrassed, but you'll never see him again and he probably won't think anything of it from that point on.

If he doesn't reject you, then think of what you have to gain.

 

[kurtwild]

i agrree with luminum.
if you want him go and tell him ,the worst is that he will reject but maybe he will be interested.
go and tell him!!!!!

 

[looseliam]

"As you grow older, you'll find he only things you regret are the things you didn't do."
-Zachary Scott

 

[spreadeagle]

The AIM means that you have a way of keeping in touch with him and a possibility of developing the relationship further by getting to know more about each other without you being distracted by having to look at his adorable face all the time.

It also means that this can happen away from the watchful eyes of everyone else at work. Should it be necessary it also makes terminating the relationship easier.

 

[Jeimuzu]

People say don't date a co-worker. Well, he isn't now. Or won't be anyway, so date him Ask him out romantically, ask him out non-romantically and see if you can make him interested, spontaneously snog him, whatever you wanna do. Go for it!

 

[arc248]

Thanks guys for the responses!!!

Well, as I said, I sent him a friendly message last night on his myspace and gave him my AIM screen name. I couldn't wait to go home and check my message box today, but I was so disappointed. He did not reply, and he DID log in to his myspace account. He didn't message through AIM either.

It's one of those times when I just wanted to give up on him. I was so happy and anxious today until now...

And I checked the work schedule, I won't see him this coming week at all...and then the week after that (his last week), probably not so much either...

 

[arc248]

I'm sad now, and I am listening to Imogene Heap's "Let Go" nonstop...

http://youtube.com/watch?v=2SS7RO8vt9c

and Joseph Arthur's "Honey and the Moon" because he liked the song...

http://youtube.com/watch?v=cBst1dhdIHg

 

[JackFTwist]

you send him a message and say, since you are leaving, I'd like to buy you a drink -

he accepts or not

but then you will have done something positive

 

[arc248]

Today is the second day, still no news from him...

I'll wait until tomorrow, and then I'll let it go.

 

[Riverrick]

Hang in there! He may be waiting a few days so don't give up too soon.

And you're not a loser. Just a normal guy.

 

[arc248]

Well, today is the third and last day. So apparently, he is not interested in me.

End of the story.

There will be no more guessings and hopes.

 

[Diodorus]

I'm pretty slow about returning emails and PMs myself. A couple of days is not that long a time.

 

[acrobat7]

if you're feeling something, then something is probably there, but he may not be strong enough or brave enough to act on it.

 

[luminum]

Well, it's over. Move on. There are plenty more fish in the sea