Hi I've know this guy since 9th grade we've been friends for 5 yrs now but within the past year we become better friends I've come to realise that I just might love him he knows that I'm bi-sexual I told him 2 years ago and he doesn't mind and even when we get on the topic of it he says he doesn't have a problem with gay people and I do believe him. I used to think he was gay but I've been thinking differently about it now he may be str8. The only reason why I thought he might be gay is because he never had a girlfriend but he's also not very outgoing towards new people. I know that I'm a close friend of his because we were texting back and fourth one night and I basically had to pry this out of him I wanted to know if he considered us good friends I've told him he's my best friend but I didn't know how he felt he finally said that I'm one of 2 of his closest friends the other being a girl but here's the problem recently I have had this feeling where I can't wait to see him talk to him on the phone or even text back and fourth but when I'm with him I'm so happy and when its time for me to go home I hate it cause I just wanna be with him more he is understanding I do talk to him about my sexuality and being confused (which is perfectly understandable I am bi) and he's ok when I talk about it the only thing is he can be an asshole some times and has smart remarks but I like it can some 1 help me I know its bad to have these feelings for a str8 guy and it can only get worse if I persue him but I'm tired of not letting him know can someone help me please?
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I love my best friend but he str8
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Lex. Icon. Devil.
That was a really long sentence at the end there.
Chances are very heavy that he does NOT feel the same way about you. You're good friends - "one of his two best friends". You've come out to him. He's been really supportive. I'm sure you've been a great friend to you, too. He knows if he were gay, and he told you, that you'd be cool with it. But he hasn't told you. Almost certainly because he isn't.
If you're really tight with him, though, why not ask? Not about if he loves you back, but if he's gay. If he says no, that should provide you all the information you need.
How to get over him? A little distance. And a lot of time spent focusing on other things, especially other guys. Ones who actually ARE gay, and want to be with you.
Lex
Chances are very heavy that he does NOT feel the same way about you. You're good friends - "one of his two best friends". You've come out to him. He's been really supportive. I'm sure you've been a great friend to you, too. He knows if he were gay, and he told you, that you'd be cool with it. But he hasn't told you. Almost certainly because he isn't.
If you're really tight with him, though, why not ask? Not about if he loves you back, but if he's gay. If he says no, that should provide you all the information you need.
How to get over him? A little distance. And a lot of time spent focusing on other things, especially other guys. Ones who actually ARE gay, and want to be with you.
Lex
I guess your right I'm gonna have to ask him only thing is he is very secretive and I really wish he wasn't it just fustarting that he keeps everything a secret but anyway I guess i'll have to ask him later to night he seems to open up more at night either by talking to him on the phone or texting that's probly where I will get some answers but if anyone else has more good advice let me know
Shadowclad86
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Lex said it all. And if by any means he is gay, are you sure you Love him and its not just a bout of Infratuation because you've been spending so much time with him?
If he is gay, you shouldn't rush in and express your feelings. Should go slow, trying dating to get a sense whether you absolutely love him.
And most importantly, think hard and twice about taking this friendship to another level if he is gay because you could be risking what sounds like a very close and important friendship.
If he is gay, you shouldn't rush in and express your feelings. Should go slow, trying dating to get a sense whether you absolutely love him.
And most importantly, think hard and twice about taking this friendship to another level if he is gay because you could be risking what sounds like a very close and important friendship.
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If you do speak to him about this, try to use punctuation.
If you speak like you write, you'll scare him half to death.
At the moment it is just a crush.
It is up to him and him alone to decide if it something more once you've told him you're gay for him. Maybe he's afraid that since you're bi, you might just dump him for some trashy piece of pussy and break his heart.
Just sayin'
If you speak like you write, you'll scare him half to death.
At the moment it is just a crush.
It is up to him and him alone to decide if it something more once you've told him you're gay for him. Maybe he's afraid that since you're bi, you might just dump him for some trashy piece of pussy and break his heart.
Just sayin'
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Love is a confusing thing. Guys seem to get overwhelmed by feelings of love. Sometimes it's hard to tell the dfference between the love you have for friends versus the love you have for boyfriends.
This isn't about what your friend feels. It's about what you feel. And it's that you want your friend to feel more than just a friendship toward you, isn't it?
This isn't about what your friend feels. It's about what you feel. And it's that you want your friend to feel more than just a friendship toward you, isn't it?