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I Love You... How Much is too Much?

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a limit to saying "I love you"? I don't think there's such a thing! I'd more worry about stiffling the other person personal space then saying I love you too much. What I mean to say is having somebody to hug and hold and cuddle etc. is nice and good...but having a "clinger" who never leaves you alone...constantly wanting attention and doesn't care where you are when they want it and doesn't respect your personal space or time....I'd say that's a limit and a very unattractive trait!
 
NO WAY !! I'd rather have someone tell me 100 times a day that they love me ; than to not tell me at all ... So; I'll take all the "I Love You's" that I can get ... (and that is not very many right now ..)
 
Once is sufficient. You know when a person loves you from the way they behave towards you. So few people understand the meaning of the word. It's uncommon for someone to be able to say 'I love you' without the implicit expectation that you should respond in kind.
 
^^^ agree. And sounds like Screwnutty has been dating a few of the guys I have known. Sorry pal, I just threw them out, I didn't know they were going to land in your neck of the woods.

But saying "I love you" in the morning and evening but living it in between is just fine with me. Otherwise it can get to the point it is just a phrase to be batted back and forth with no real meaning.
 
Nope, don't think there's a limit to it but I reckon those words should only be said when one really means it!
 
Nutty said:
I'm in a long-term, long-distance relationship which means I only get to see my Better Half at the weekends, and sometimes not even then.

We speak twice daily on the 'phone and we always say "I Love You!" at the end of each call (if he doesn't say it, I know something's wrong and he is stressed).

The only time we say "I Love You!" when we are together is just before we turn over to sleep - we don't need to say it while together because of the way we interact.

It's important to emphasise that you love someone when you are apart, because you never know what lies in store for you around the corner.
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Agree 100%! Sounds like you have the kind of relationship I used to have with my baby. Fortunately, that's all about to end here in a few weeks when we will move to a new town TOGETHER and will be able to fall asleep and wake next to each other every day! But, to answer the question as to how much is too much?...when you stop meaning it! Like Nutty said...you never know what life has in store...I'd rather my last words to him be "I love you!"
 
i believe that there was a song out some time back that sums up my personal opinions on this matter. to paraphrase

" oh baby, if you please...a little less TALK....and a lot more ACTION"

(*8*) :wave: (*8*)
 
I suppose it is possible to over do anything, but I do think that telling someone that you love them too much would one of those things that would be almost impossible.

I agree with hotcbr, one never knows and I would like to think that the last thing I said to my loved one would be "I love you".
 
I think that over use of any phrase debases its meaning, so I would save it for poigniant moments such as at partings, as a goodbye on the phone etc. When you are together it shouldn't be needed as your interaction and treatment of each other should say it all. If I had someone say it to me all the time I would feel suffocated by their apparrent insecurity.
 
Unless you're saying it sarcastically, I don't think there would be a problem. ;)
 
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