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I may never be in a relationship with people my age

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I came to this conclusion that I may never be in a relationship with someone my age (or even around my age).

Firstly, I am physically attracted to older people, both in a fetish and a non-fetish way. I like older folks because they usually have a nice piece of rug on their chest and their physique is just very appealing to me... *|* But even if they do not have a furry chest, I just find that they are more physically attractive (can't explain) than guys in their 20s early 30s. For example, when I am browsing through Jake Cruise's eye candy section on JUB, I almost always pick those with Jake Cruise himself in the scene and I look at Jake Cruise most of the time.

Secondly, the two person in my life whom I've been emotionally and romantically attracted to are people 20 years and 30 years my senior. Two of both I am still very emotionally attracted to. I am not remotely attracted to people in the range of 18 to early 30s.

Am I the only one in this? Or is this ridiculous?

I think I also have a fetish for men with sloped hair... I better go back into my cave away from civilisation...:help:
 
Your not alone, and it's not weird. I bet you don't have much trouble finding dates! ;) It works for you, don't knock it.
 
Well if older is what you like why is it a problem??
 
Older men, like me, would not mind having someone your age as a friend, mate, or being romantically involved. I do not think you are alone in this.....many older men on "dating" sites looking for someone around your age!

I have even gotten older men e-mailing me! But I prefer younger. Brain functions are in the 20's to 30's group, bod is much older......

My current bf will be 30 this year!

I would say do not worry about it and see the men, (or man), that makes you happy! In the end all that matters is both of you are happy...age should not play a role in being happy or in love!
 
I feel the same way too. There was this guy he was so my type and my age but he made love to me and then disappeared and got married to this girl. He invited me to his wedding i said hell no you bastard. You made me fall for you and then you up and leave and get married?

How dare you do that to another human being. Then a week after they got back from the honeymoon we made love again but it was just closure, and he owed it to me.


So i am flying solo right now. I tried also with a college basketball player but he had way too many groupie girls after his dick so i had to break up with him, His sex was so good though but i had to take a stand. Some men have to be shared i know that but not my man.

Older men tend to try and control you with their power and money. So i tend not to gravitate towards them. If i do get with an older man we have to be on equal footing so that he doenst go on a power trip.
 
Antares said:
I'd like to be in a relationship with someone between the ages of 19-27. Right now, with no prospects and no idea what I'm doing...I feel like that may never happen.

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I feel the same way Antares.
 
No, I generally feel like that might be the case with myself. I enjoy the Jake Cruise videos where he's in it as well. I think I just like the dynamic. So I'd probably be more turned on or just attracted to the aspect of being the younger guy in the relationship.

I think I also have some predisposition to compare myself to guys my age, intellectually, phsyically, etc. But I think I have the notion that an older guy has more than me in experience and i don't have to drive myself nuts trying to compare myself to him.
 
Being an older guy , I have always had considerabley younger guys as B/fs and in relationships .... and; even though I am aware that I am not handsome or sexy , these young guys pursued me ....
However; I have NEVER wanted or tried to control anyone with all my money and worldly power(s) .... First: Not "That" much $$$$ and 2nd, No powers ...
 
WYSIWYG: If things works out between me and the man to whom I am attracted to, we would have exactly the same age gap as yours have. He told me that he feels like he is taking advantage of me if we get together but I've never thought of it this way.

newboy12: what a cute story. I've only been on dates with one older guy (in fact I've only bee on date with one guy) and so far, he hasn't gone on power trips. I feel that he cares about me and I really enjoy his company (I can only hope he feels the same way).

Elwoods, mega: The problem is that people who are older may think that are abusing me if we have a relationship. Also, we will just fall into people's stereotype of sugar-daddy/toyboy relationship. Finally, how do I tell my parents if my bf is 50 years old? I think they'll go bananas.
 
I think it's great! I am so sickened by all the twink worship on here! Those young looking,pale,stick thin,peach fuzzed faced boys are gross!!! I love a guy like Mark Harmon of Perry King. Real guys with arm hair and chest hair. Crows feet and a strong hand shake...............Okay, I'm back;)
 
I think it is perfectly fine that you're attracted to older guys. It is no different than older guys being attracted to younger men. Its all about chemistry which is something that is individual to each of us
 
LOLS... I am stick thin (think middle-distance runner) because I run alot, definitely not pale and can't even grow peach fuzzes because of my genetic make up (Asians generally are not the hairiest people on th planet). Yes, I AM twinkish...

I don't diet though, it's not my thing.
 
TinyToeOut said:
Elwoods, mega: The problem is that people who are older may think that are abusing me if we have a relationship. Also, we will just fall into people's stereotype of sugar-daddy/toyboy relationship. Finally, how do I tell my parents if my bf is 50 years old? I think they'll go bananas.
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First off, I do not understand why someone older who is in a relationship with you, would think they are abusing you? Secondly who the hell cares what other people think?? If you are happy that is what should matter. Now I can understand the point about your parents, however you have to live your life and be happy, and if you are only happy with an older man then your parents are just going to have to get used to it. I mean yes we all want to try and make our parents happy, but at what cost?? Our own happiness????
 
Hey Tiny:

Do what's right for you and keep in mind that this always your life and your relationship.

Don't worry about the other people and their thoughts. They are not paying your phone bills and they are not putting the food on your kitchen table. Moreover, they are not around when you need human touch, love, sex, support, whatever.

Dating significantly older guys has a number of significant benefits attached to it. You must have seen similar threads here in the past, rite?

And observe yet another interesting phenomenon: general ideas, the opinions of the majority, etc., more often than not push you towards abandoning real, tangible and often material benefits in favor of 'doing, what they think is right' which very often leaves you bare-handed. Think about it...

SC
 
Us... older guys have less to prove... been there done that and got the tee shirt.. and along the way have had our lumps and bumps... and now being older can value a relationship based on something more that just sex.
 
Nope it's totally normal. Guys my age find me repulsive, I've always been attracted to older men and I'm not changing my preference for anyone. I hope you find that special somebody.
 
I am "Talking" with a younger guy right now ... I am 57 and he is 19 . He know that IF we decide to make the Hook Up what i expect most is Loyalty and Faithfulness along with 100% Truthfulness ....
When we move north; his name would go on my deed .."with the right of sucession to " .............." as to avoid any probate probles and there will be a receipt in MY safe showing that he has paid me for every other material thing in my home so NO ONE can step in and take things away from him ....
I'm older and feel it is my responsability to look after my younger guy .... in case something would happen to me ..
 
Stellar69: The person whom I like now exhibits that kind of attitude and I like that very much of him. And oh, if the person in your avatar is you, I think you are very handsome... :)

KennyD.: I don't have a good self-esteem but one thing that I am very positive about myself is that I am loyal to whom I am attached to. I've told myself no matter what happens between the older guy friend (not yet a bf) of mine and me, I want to be by his side and taking care of him if he needs it. I don't care even if we aren't in a BF/BF relationship or if we breakup (that is if we do get into a relationship) later on in life, I truly feel that I've found a friend and hopefully it can last my lifetime. That is also if he wants me around him.

Thanks guys :)
 
Isn't there an entire section dedicated to daddies and daddy lovers? Uhm yes. I don't understand how you think you can be alone in this. Peruse this site and you'll find threads about my older boyfriend this and my older boyfriend that and i like daddies and daddies like me etc etc.

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