I need some help/advie on not being able to cum!

[Sirramm]

I can and have literally gone for an entire weekend of total balls to the wall sex and while my mate gets off several times during that time frame I rarely if ever have even one orgasm. I don't masturbate, I'm always horny, I don't do any drugs at all nor abuse alcohol. I am healthy (just had a full check up) and don't have an issue with any type of sex. I am almost always horny and never have a problem getting hard and maintaining a good solid full erection. So why do I just get to the verge of orgasm and then wham!! its gone!! Anyone else have this issue/problem? Any advice???

 

[JUB]

Re: I need some help/advie on not being able to cu

Hmmm maybe you are psyching yourself up too much before you orgasm that your brain is too busy 'thinking' and this deters the nerve impulses to the lower spine which are critical in orgasm and ejacultaion....

 

[FPNY]

Re: I need some help/advie on not being able to cu

I would definately speak with my doctor about this problem. You said you just had a physical, did you mention this to him/her?

 

[HOT4MEN]

Re: I need some help/advie on not being able to cu

Here you go. Hope it helps.

http://www.infosex.com/Cant-reach-orgasm-male

 

[Croynan]

Re: I need some help/advie on not being able to cu



if your avatar and photos in your gallery are yours, maybe the hardware you wear is the issue.

otherwise maybe seek professional help - a dr. where you disclose everything about the issues involved or possibly a sex therapist/psychiatrist.

eM.

 

[TriBi]

Re: I need some help/advie on not being able to cu

One of the medical people that posts on JUB reported this - suggesting you might get more useful responses in the Health and Wellbeing Forum.

I tend to agree with him - so I'll move it there.

 

[Sirramm]

Re: I need some help/advie on not being able to cu

Thanks for moving it mod! I can use all the help I can get!

Yes the pictures are of "ME"...but I generally don't wear the jewelry when I have sex...unless requested and that is rarely. And actually since getting the piercing I have actually gained more sensitivity to the head of my dick.

I have spoken to my partner about my not being able to orgasm 'quickly' and was assured it was 'ok' but it still bothers me.

 

[ephram314]

Re: I need some help/advie on not being able to cu

I also am not an easy one to please. Sometimes it takes awhile for me to cum when I'm with my partner, and sometimes it just doesn't happen at all. Usually I can get myself off pretty quickly by masturbating, as long as there's some porn involved.

I don't think it's really a problem, as long as you and your partner don't make it a problem. For me, I'm just open with my partners and tell them ahead of time that it might be difficult to get me off, and it might not happen at all, but it doesn't mean I'm not enjoying everything we do, and it's not their fault at all.

Oh, have you tried bottoming? Usually it makes me so horny I'm on the edge of cumming the whole time. It's not my cup of tea all the time, but when I'm in the mood for it, it's great.

 

[D_Pipa]

Re: I need some help/advie on not being able to cu

Its no big deal.

Try this: Rub hard on the thing below the balls while jerking, and explodeeee!

 

[ephram314]

Re: I need some help/advie on not being able to cu

I'd just like to throw in that not be tired, hungry, or thirsty is also pretty key. If I'm any of those things, a lot of times it just doesn't happen. So make sure you're well rested and have some energy.