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I Need Some Help Please

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HI, I HAVEN'T POSTED SINCE LAST SUMMER, BUT I NEED HELP, I HAVE A PROBLEM, AND I THINK YOU GUYS CAN HELP ME:

IM TOTALLY IN LOVE WITH A GUY, BUT HE'S 1 YEAR YOUNGER THAN ME, AND I DONT KNOW IF HE IS GAY, OR BI. HE IS VERY CUTE, HE IS VERY NICE, AND I LOVE HIM, BUT I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO TO GET HIS ATTENTION, AND MAYBE HE'S STRAIGHT

I AM IN A REAL BAD DEPRESSION BECAUSE OF THAT, AND I KEEP THINKING ON SUICIDE, SO THATS WHY I NEED YOU, PLEASE :cry:

I, I AM NOT GAY, IM BI, SO ITS MORE DIFFICULT TO ME, BECAUSE MY FRIENDS DON'T KNOW THIS, AND, I DONT CARE ABOUT THEM, ALL I CARE ABOUT IS THIS GUY THAT I DON'T EVEN KNOW ACTUALLY, PLEASE, GIMME SOME ADVICES PLEASE, IM DESPERATE, AND I THINK I'LL BE ABLE TO SUICIDE, PLEASE, I DONT KNOW WAT TO DO:help:
 
We're in the same boat then only my best friend is the guy I like and he doesn't know it.

But don't do suicide, it's such a selfish act and think of all the people you would be hurting around you. If you don't know the guy that well then just ask him if he wants to hang out sometime or w/e to get to know him then see where it goes from there.
 
SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO BITE THE BULLET(SO TO SPEAK)Stop and think wouldn't it be better for you to know if there is a possibility? Try and talk , then you will know.I know it's hard but very nessesary.Man iv'e missed so many oppurtunities.
 
Dude there are millions of other guys out there, so if he doesnt end up being gay then you can def. find someone else. Dont ever think about suicide itll just hurt the ones who love you, plus the world will miss out on you.
 
Thanks A Lot Guys, You Relly Helped Me.
I Don't Actually Know What Im Going To Do, But I'll Try Not To Think On Suicide. You Wre Right, I Will Oly Hurt My Family, Most Of Them My Sister, She's The Only One That Kows This.
Well Thank You, And I'll Try To Keep On Contact With You, Thanks
Ok, Bye. I'll Try This And I'll Be Back To Tell You How I Did, Bye
 
hey,
try to read other people's threads here would help you alot.
 
vikram said:
I Am In A Real Bad Depression Because Of That, And I Keep Thinking On Suicide, So Thats Why I Need You, Please
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The question here is whether you are emotional because you have feelings that are more than you can copy with?

Or is this a real depression?

A crush shouldn't make you feel depressed.

So, are there other things in your life that are causing the depression? Are you getting help for the depression?
 
No man is worth killing yourself over, particularly someone that you have confused having a crush on with being in love with them.

You need real professional help with your depression; thoughts of suicide are just not to be taken lightly.

Talk to a mental health counsellor as soon as possible. If you are on any medications, speak to your family doctor.
 
KaraBulut said:
The question here is whether you are emotional because you have feelings that are more than you can copy with?

Or is this a real depression?

A crush shouldn't make you feel depressed.

So, are there other things in your life that are causing the depression? Are you getting help for the depression?
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ACTUALLY, YES. I HAVEN'T CAME OUT OF THE CLOSET. AND EVEN IF I HAVE A CHANCE WITH THIS GUY, EVERYONE WILL, WELL, YOU KNW HOW HARD THIS IS.

BESIDE, ITS NOT ONLY BECAUSE OF MY FRIENDS, BUT MY PARENTS ARE CONSERVATORS, AND I DONT KNOW HOW WILL THEY TAKE IT, BUT...
AH, WHEREVER, IT DOESNT MATTER, NOT ANYMORE. I'LL SEE WHAT TO DO
THANKS FOR EVERYTHING, AND I'LL KEEP AROUND, SO DONT FORGET ME JEJE
BYE
 
vikram said:
ACTUALLY, YES. I HAVEN'T CAME OUT OF THE CLOSET. AND EVEN IF I HAVE A CHANCE WITH THIS GUY, EVERYONE WILL, WELL, YOU KNW HOW HARD THIS IS.

BESIDE, ITS NOT ONLY BECAUSE OF MY FRIENDS, BUT MY PARENTS ARE CONSERVATORS, AND I DONT KNOW HOW WILL THEY TAKE IT, BUT...
AH, WHEREVER, IT DOESNT MATTER, NOT ANYMORE. I'LL SEE WHAT TO DO
THANKS FOR EVERYTHING, AND I'LL KEEP AROUND, SO DONT FORGET ME JEJE
BYE
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Please read rareboy's comments and take them into consideration.

And please let us know how you're doing. We do care.
 
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