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I return once again...with explanations

1gayguy

1gayguy

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Well now that my life is returning to something that might be considered normal, I feel I can return and while I'm at it expalin why I left temporarily.
I left because I wasn't feeling good about some of the people here were getting quite disrespectful if not out right rude. This seems to have passed.
Another reason I left was unexpected. Awhile ago (maybe a month) I started a thread entitled "What do I say, What do I do", regarding my former wife and her diagnosis with stage 4 metastatic melanoma. Well, treatment didn't go well. At the end of last month, at the age of 44, my former wife lost her fight. I was called in by our daughter and my former wife's current husband, to act as her advocate in the health care system.
I have never seen anyone with such fight and determination pass with such dignity. The one's by her side were a sister and our daughter. My daughter is an amazing young woman of 22. In the few private times during the whole ordeal, she let herself breakdown. In public she was as solid as anyone could be.
My former wife's passing hit me harder than I expected. Somewhere it dawned on me that she had given me the greatest gift in the birth of our daughter. There really is no greater gift.Another reason it hit was this was someone who was close to me not only emotionally but also my own age.
Kind of makes mortality hit you in the face.
In the past 10 months me and my partner have lost his mother this past October, his dad this June and my former wife the end of last month. Right now, we're finally started to get on with life. Kinda.
So there it is guys and gals.
So if I get a bit snippy or pompous or a little over sensitive.....just slap me up side the head.
 
Sorry to hear about that, but welcome back.

I'm glad you still have your partner and your daughter. Life is tough, but it's good to count your current blessings.(*8*) :kiss:
 
welcome back !!

I can only echo what has been said already

we cant lessen the difficulty of your journey, but we can join you on the road and make you feel less alone as you trudge along

hugs
 
You've been through a lot,don't feel defensive or needing to explain yourself.You and your partner and families have seen much sadness this past year or so,and have needed the time to deal with all the emotions you have been experiencing.Glad you are back here,and you've got our love and support to help comfort you when you're down.(*8*) (*8*) (*8*) (*8*) (*8*) (*8*) (*8*) (*8*) (*8*) (*8*)
 
My condolences on all the losses you and your partner have experienced. I know that it is not easy, but you sound as if you are moving forward with dignity, grace and honesty. Being identified as your ex's health care advocate speaks volumes of your integrity, to do the right thing. My thoughts will be with you.
 
A simple "condolences, welcome back" is the only thing I can think to say.

oh - and of course, this...(*8*)
 
I am so sorry, and do want to welcome you back. I have always liked posting with you. Are you working in Nashua now?
 
Wow, thanks guys! One thing that has amazed me through the whole process is the kindness of thers. It truly is a wonderful thing.
And yes to just add a little frosting on top of it allI started a new job in an industry I've bever been in. Retail furniture as an assistant office manager for local chain. Retail... it just doesn't get better.
Thanks again. The people here are what makes coming (and going and coming back again) here a nice place to be.
 
I'm sorry for what you went through, and what your former wife went through too. I'm glad you have a beautiful daughter as your legacy. It's good to have you back here, too!
 
Hi, 2gayguys! sushi here. sometimes it is really amazing how life deals the cards. what amazes me was your ability to find the silver lining and the blessings behind all your trials. you have what it takes to sail through life..... wisdom and strength! godspeed!
 
Take care of yourself and lean on us when you need to...it is great how you can find comfort in the boards here...I love them...

I am sure you have heard it a million times, but hang in there and know that even though we are strangers, we are connected.
 
There has to be a whole lot of love in that family. It is a tribute to you, I'm sure that you were asked to be her health advocate.

It is a terrible loss. Best wishes.
 
It's nice that you are back. After all the hard times, the only direction you can go in is up. Congratulations and good luck on your new job.(*8*) :kiss:
 
Well..So much has been said already. I lost 4 of the closest people in my life over the span of 3 years. I know what its like to lose the people around you that you love. There is no words or amount of cyber hugs that will ease the pain. Time is the best cure for sadness. However please know that we are here for you and I hope that you are able to get back to a fully happy life very soon. god bless and take care.
Until we talk again...(*8*)
 
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