I think I am in love????

[beatleshead]

Well first off...i hope ur eighteen, otherwise they'll kick you off of here and redirect you to empty closets.com.

I think you should start off just being friends with him...if it was meant to happen it will happen. But he seems like he wants to at least be friends with you...so just like start small talk with em, or hang out with em. you dont have to go guns blazing.."hi, i dont know you but im in love with you". lol

 

[acjuju]

I agree with beatleshead, just talk to him and become friends. See how that goes and what sort of vibe you get from him. If you still think he is interested in you then make your move. Good Luck!

 

[landers]

I agree with Volcom. It's a crush, not love. Love comes from knowing someone and that can't happen until you talk to him. Just remember that whatever feelings you may have for him, he may not have for you and you have to be prepared for rejection if that's the case.

 

[fiorio]

you are in the first phase of secret crushing.
congratulations!

 

[Yuki Sohma]

...Every time I think about him. my heart drops to the ground and I just can't help but to smile...

Like Innocent-Lad said can't

eliminate the possibility of love

................may -B- a bit early -2- tell though................try & find some common interest(s) & then -C- where the relationship goes................

 

[rareboy]

I want to actually get to know him and talk and be friends. and really get to know him.

Try talking directly to him.

Start with 'Hello' or 'Hi' and see where it goes from there.

 

[Lewis1]

i am going through the same thing only
i decided to talk to him instead of just staring at each other
and we have really hit it off just like you it goes alot deeper than just wanting sex
i want to get to know him and be friends and let that other stuff if it tappenes just happen but I hugged him and it felt amazing to touch him and we shook hands and he doesnt want to let go lol I feel like i love him but it could just be infatuation but it feels real so yeah me taking the initiative to talk to him went the distance.
and it seems to be the start of a great friendship

 

[G-Lexington]

Nothing IS going to happen unless you do something to MAKE it happen.

Lex

 

[rareboy]

I am a little confused. You've never spoken to this person. You know virtually nothing about them.

You think you're in love. Why? What is the attraction?

Why do you like him? Why do you think you need to tell him?

I appreciate that you are very young and inexperienced, but you don't want to establish a pattern here that may lead to years of frustration and anxiety.

You have to be prepared to invest some actual physical effort into making a friend. Seriously. You are no longer a child that will just have attention or affection dumped on you.

You will have to start to be logical and discerning about why you are attracted to someone and what you want out of a relationship. In this case, it appears that you see him as a platonic friend. Good.

When you were younger, you probably were able to make friends relatively easily before the politics of sexuality clouded your judgement. Just go back to that time. Make it clear that you would like to hang together. Ask him to join you and other friends for some event. After that event, you can see whether you want to spend more time together based on common interests etc.

Stop mooning over him and get to work.

 

[racer2438]

lesson 1 in life >> one sided love will NEVER work.

it sounds more of a crush. And until he knows something from you, nothing will ever come of it and you will just be lusting over him and it will drive you nuts.

Start as friends and see how it goes. Carefull not to jump the gun and let anyone know just yet. high school can be ruff on young gays.

 

[rareboy]

I don't liketo reveal myself too sonn to someone I don;t know.

Now we're getting somewhere.

It is all about risk management. Forgive me, but I know that we have raised an entire generation of children to be afraid of risk, including emotional risk. Everyone is now so afraid of rejection that they're afraid to do anything that might expose them to it, it seems.

Maybe you'll be rejected. Maybe you'll have your feelings hurt.
So what? It is a big, big world and you'll hopefully have 70 years ahead of you to get over it.

When I was a puppy in High School, there were a couple of amazingly hot guys on the football team that I admittedly mooned over, but never really got to know. After I went away to university, I happened to meet up with one of them when I went back home for a visit. And he told me that he wished that we had spent time together when we were both in the same school. Who'da thought.

The other side of risk is reward. Who knows. Maybe this guy would like to have you as a friend. Maybe you might end up completing part of him.

You don't have to swear undying love to him, or even tell him you're gay or anything like that. You just have to start by being friendly and approachable. If nothing else, use this situation for practice. We need to get you out of your skin and more comfortable with making acquaintances.