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I wanna be fully gay

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Ok so im Bisexual and i hate it with a passion! for the past 3 years or so i have been in love with guys everything about them.... and when im a lone at night i jack off to gay porn and love every site i see... but recently i have been checking out more and more girls but i dont want to... i wanna be fully gay i dont wanna keep going back and fourth i just wanna be gay no straightness involved....



uhhhh.... thanks for the venting/therepy session
 
What keeps you going back and forth? Are you in a relationship with a woman? Is it fear of being gay and committing to it? Give us a little background.
 
When you say you have been checking out more and more girls what do you mean by that?

Are you having sex with them or just noticing them for their attractiveness?(not sure if that is a real word??). I thought for a long time that I was bisexual but now know and have for sometime that I am totally gay - I still look at girls and appreciate their looks as long as their clothes stay on.

Do you look at and enjoy depictions of naked females? - maybe after seeing some of the threads current on Hot topics they should invent a gay pill;)
 
Thats one of the problems is i dont know what keeps me going back and fourth, for a while i thought it was because i wanted to be nromal and have an easier life... i guess


and thats the thing more recently my fantasies have been swtiching from guys to girls and back again

ITS JUST SO DAMN CONFUSING like i would rather be gay or straight then Bi


i just wanna be one i dont care wich
 
maybe you should ask soilwork for help ..

ok forget that, just kidding ;)
 
Be what you are and enjoy it.

Be glad you have feelings about other people and are open enough to express them.

The last time I had an affair with a woman was when I was 30. She was 40. I was in an affair with a man 10 years younger than me at the same time, and he was in an affair with my gal's daughter (who was his age). We were all very open about it. It was weird by most people's standards but we enjoyed it and isn't that what really matters?

Sexuality, attraction, desire, are very personal, individual feelings. Don't try to conform yours to anybody else's definition for themselves. Do what's right for you. Just be honest, be genuine, and don't unnecessarily hurt other people.
 
Great Advice NickCole

I just want to add that having a favorite flavor doesnt mean you dont want to occasionally have something else.

Bisexuality is real. I know there is a small group of guys here that have a hobby of beating down bisexuals, but....

Gay Lesbian Bisexual and Transgendered society is who we are. We accept all parts even if we dont have the same desires.

I have known a few gay men who have professed that they were kind of bisexual, just not enough to really affect the happiness with their life choices. Other bisexual men clearly have evolving tastes.

Just relax.... you have friends here and there are many others like you in our GLBT community.

I am inspired by your courage !!!
 
Thanks guys i feel so much better about my self and i guess i will take this quote by heart



NO DAY BUT TODAY



anyone... name where its from....



anyways thanks again and im sure youll here more from me soon about my situation
 
Just accept who you are and move on, life is too short to limit yourself.

so what if you occassionally like men or occassionally like women.
It's like cookies and ice cream they both taste good, just one is soft and one is hard.

Stop beating yourself up over this, you are perfect just as you are.
 
I agree with NickCole: Be who and what you are and enjoy it.

I'm bi myself..and I'm perfectly comfortable with that.
 
I'm not sure that deciding whether your 100% this or that is even the right goal. This life drags each of us, whether we like it or not, to the point where we have to make decisions and these decisions involve some other person. When the two of you decide to commit your lives to one another, your choice is made and blessed are those who remain faithful to their commitment.
 
oh hun,


You could never be as gay as some of us: And really, would you want to?

I have all seasons of Xena, Buffy, and Daria floating around here....plus there's the endless array of cookbooks, self help books, incense, and some rainbow colored flags

and you know i have rearragne it constantly, plus keep up with all those fashion changes

and be fabluously fit

do yoga, help others,
giggle randomly

it's all SO draining....

so be happy with being bi.

Fully gay is WAY too much work.

on a reasonable note,

what the hell is compeltly gay? Is there such a thing?

sounds like you're real problem is not your sexuality, perhaps it your attitude and perspective that need changing
 
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