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I want my boss, he has a boyfriend...

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Not a good idea to mess with your boss. Especially one with a boyfriend leave him alone and find another man you wouldn't like if someone was kissing on your boyfriend.

Your poor boss boyfriend is sitting at home thinking he has a great man and hes kissing men behind his back :(
 
Wow.

I'd start looking for another job.

Your boss sounds like he needs an hour or two of training in appropriate behaviour as well.

This can only end badly for at least one of the three of you in this little morality play.
 
After your last day, give him your e-mail address/phone number/facebook info, and ask him to keep in touch.

Lex
 
woody-s said:
#6- On my end, I would really like to explore a possible relationship with him if he was ever single.
#7- Since I won't have any reason to see him after we finish this project, I want #6 to be perfectly clear before I leave.
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Give him your phone number after you leave.
 
There's nothing wrong with keeping in touch. If things don't work out with the guy he is dating (it's too early to tell if its a LTR thing), then you're good to have him!
 
So does he have bad judgement for picking this other guy to be his boyfriend?

Or did he have good judgement when he picked the guy but poor boundary skills?

I don't get it.
 
Maybe it's me, but when someone is with someone else, I really don't like the idea of giving your phone number and letting them know you have no opposition to dating them. It just rubs me the wrong way because I know someone who used to call my boyfriend and want to come over for sex and it just annoyed me every time he called.
 
I miscommunicated. I meant I don't like the idea period. I don't like it because I know what it feels like to have someone be after your boyfriend. I didn't mean to say that I wanted you to call his home or call the boyfriend.
 
Yea, I wouldn't want to be the guy he's currently dating because that WOULD suck.
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As long as you remember this when you are the guy he's dating and someone else comes along and he dumps you for them.

But he's an adult and it is up to him to decide.
 
The decision is up to you, but it should be underscored that you should not mess with someone that is taken. While you might believe that you have a "connection" with this man, getting involved with him could, and probably would, drive a wedge between him and his boyfriend. It is up to your boss to end his current relationship if he does indeed have feelings for you. So, as many posters have already suggested, give him your phone number and keep in contact (as friends). If he becomes single, then you could try to make a relationship with him.

Good luck.
 
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