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I want my guy to cheat on me behind my back....

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I have been with the same guy now for almost 7 years. The though of him talking dirty, and hooking up with another guy behind my back get my harder than i thought possible. Hes a hairy stocky guy who cums alot, and just knowing that other guys are seeing him naked make me want to cum without touching myself. Am I sick in the head, or have other couples has these same thoughts. This is my first posting ever on here and I need some advice.....

-aaron
 
Have you discussed it with him?
 
yes i have a few times. He said he loves blowjobs, and that he has thought about being with other guys just for sex. He is afraid my reaction wont be good
 
There can be a big difference between reality and fantasy. Try role playing this out with him. Have him hook up with you and act like strangers. Make a make shift gloryhole in your home. Blow him in a "safe" public place. There are ways to approach the fantasy without actually doing it. Anyway, I'd recommend these things to see what that does for you first.
 
I think this fantasy is more common than anyone thinks...I just don't think most people tell anyone. On Empire a couple weeks ago the husband did this and it turned his wife on..apparently it was a regular occurance. First time I have ever seen in on TV LOL....but alot of people confided this fantasy/reality to me when I was bartending...

I would suspect the problem might be if you decide to compare yourself to the other guys...I can't see that ending well. You will force your partner into lying...not a great move. There is also the slight chance he would fall for the other guy but I suspect if you were both open about it the chances would be slim.I think most people find other partner's because they CAN'T be open with the one they are with....which is why I said it is a slim chance.
 
I dont want to roleplay. I want to know if anyone else has this fantasy or has actually done it.
 
It is roleplay in a way because you want him to do it but you want to pretend you don't know it is happening.

I think it's a pretty typical fantasy. We are wired to notice when the people we're with get noticed by others. It is kind of an ego trip to think that the person i have every day is also able to get other people horny.

I can't imagine me being okay with it. Hooking up just turns me off, me or my guy. But he seems to find it hot. He's just not convinced that you do. Not sure how to help there since you've already told him.

Or maybe he believed you exactly when you told him that you wanted him to sleep around without telling you and maybe that's what he does.
 
I found pics last night on his phone of guys he works with of there crotches and stuff. I wish more guys would reply to this thread...
 
aaron200819 said:
I found pics last night on his phone of guys he works with of there crotches and stuff. I wish more guys would reply to this thread...
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There is "another guy" similar to you as you both have 6 numbers after your name...and you both have the same problem and posted around the same day but neither one of you have posted in each other's threads...THAT is the guy you should discuss this with since you are both seeking answers to similar situations. Maybe you could connect and help each other..|
 
eastofeden said:
There is "another guy" similar to you as you both have 6 numbers after your name...and you both have the same problem and posted around the same day but neither one of you have posted in each other's threads...THAT is the guy you should discuss this with since you are both seeking answers to similar situations. Maybe you could connect and help each other..|
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were is this guy
 
I have the same interests as the OP and have worked this into an open relationship. Trust and communication are huge factors to make this successful. While the relationship is open, he has much more freedom then I and I like it.
 
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