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I went back to my friends for drinks after being out and he did this?

He came around lastnight. nothing! no talking about sex, men, women, boobs balls nothing. just chatting :-(
 
pandh200 said:
He came around lastnight. nothing! no talking about sex, men, women, boobs balls nothing. just chatting :-(
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To be fair, it has been 4 months. For a couple / few times he was doing everything he could to interest you to no avail.

Not to be critical of you, but if you read these forums, there are threads like yours started nearly weekly. The main gist always tends to be a "straight friend" of theirs is making all of these moves sexually, and has been for months, what should they do. A few more months pass by before the poster makes a move (and actually usually never does) and by that time the "straight guy" has started dating a girl or guy, or has started hanging out with someone new. *shrug* As an early 40 something male, who has lived with being gay/questioning/etc.... time is of the essence. Grab life by the tail.
 
Our regrets come mainly from the things we DIDN'T Do! #-o ](*,)

DO Something! \:/
 
I could be wrong but I think the train has left the station. he's sent some very clear signals and you didn't take him up on the offer. it's still possible for something to happen but those chances are getting less and less. I'll say this. if it doesn't feel right or you're getting a bad vibe and are apprehensive then don't push it. I think he's afraid to make the first move and eventually you're going to have to do it or forget about the whole thing.

Steven
 
havent seen him for a while. got a text thursday asking me what i was doing. said to come round to mine. we had a few beers chatted usual stuff, went for a cig. As usual he had one of his hands down his pants while he was talking to me. I said it must be a fantastic place down there you never leave it alone. he then said you can put your hands down if you want. i said fuck it yeah why not and went straight in. there was like an awkward few seconds and i started rubbing his balls. i laughed and said how long until you get a hard on, he was now in a good semi. hes circumcised. i asked him how he wanked as i'm not cut. he said he does a lot of his at the base of the head. at this point i'm still fondling him. by now hes hard and so am i. i said lets see it with a hard on and he said only if he could see mine. he grabbed it and started to wank me a little and i did to him back. then he said he needed to go but we would pick up from there next time. good sign, finally something happened, small steps :-)
 
He's hoping he actually follows through. I have a feeling he will though, he's probably just as happy that he's finally getting some action after months of nothing lol.
 
Kyanimal said:
Our regrets come mainly from the things we DIDN'T Do! #-o ](*,)

DO Something! \:/
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This is so true, I remember years back in an old account. I came seeking advice about a "straight friend" sexually teasing me. He did everything from groping me to kissing me on the cheek. Most guys here told me to make a move but I was afraid. Years later he tells me about his gay experiences and was no longer curious. So of course I felt so much regrets lol
Reading your update, I must say congrats, just try not to be emotionally attached because you can set yourself up for disaster other than that, Have fun and keep us posted. ;)
 
If I were you, I'd make sure sure I have condoms next time he comes to my place so we can have some hot steamy sex.
 
hmmmmmmmm................

So if this is happening the way you say it is, are you in the closet?
 
yes. asides from him, if he knows which I'm sure he has sussed it, no one knows
 
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