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I wrote to HIM.....

Grey_Sky said:
I'm saying this because that's exactely what I did and how I felt, but it was only one month after we broke up and it was his birthday and we're still friends (but not as we used to be before...).

Ok, you did what you thought was right and (just as I) you believed his words that the friendship you two had was above everything else, but sometimes it just isn't true... sad but that's a fact. So if he never replies your email, just move on knowing that you did what you could!
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It's funny how I look back and think, there was that time when he insisted we be friends and I wasn't all that prepared but now, when I'm all ready, he seems to be the one with the problem of not wanting to be friends. It is hard, I know especially for me I guess when I was the vulnerable one.

By the way, he still hasn't replied me.
 
Sounds like you are dealing with things pretty well. As you noted, sounds like he has a problem with remaining in contact, so don't worry about it. I wish you all the best.
 
confusedboy23 said:
It's funny how I look back and think, there was that time when he insisted we be friends and I wasn't all that prepared but now, when I'm all ready, he seems to be the one with the problem of not wanting to be friends. It is hard, I know especially for me I guess when I was the vulnerable one.

By the way, he still hasn't replied me.
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Guys say they want to be friends after breaking up because it they think it will make the break up easier. Its quite a delusion, though. There's a period of adjustment when you just can't be around the other person. Unless you're in therapy together and working out all of your anger and hurt, etc.

Sometimes later on, after breaking up, guys can then be friends. That's a choice that people make. I've never done it. In fact, I could call one of my Ex'es right now and talk to him for the first time in 7 years but for some reason I'm not feeling like it.

I AM sorry you're hurting Confusedboy. I do kind of wish you would get mad at this guy, though.
 
Riverrick said:
Guys say they want to be friends after breaking up because it they think it will make the break up easier. Its quite a delusion, though. There's a period of adjustment when you just can't be around the other person. Unless you're in therapy together and working out all of your anger and hurt, etc.

Sometimes later on, after breaking up, guys can then be friends. That's a choice that people make. I've never done it. In fact, I could call one of my Ex'es right now and talk to him for the first time in 7 years but for some reason I'm not feeling like it.

I AM sorry you're hurting Confusedboy. I do kind of wish you would get mad at this guy, though.
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I'm not even expecting like a 'real' friendship but I guess it would have been nice if he had responded with something at the very least. That way at least I know he's alive and well.
 
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