If you are a bi-guy, any difference?

[virgoboy]

If you have had chicks, is there a different sensation in being with a guy or fucking a guy? Has it changed your preference? Do you label yourself bi to hide from family and friends?

 

[js334433]

Do you label yourself bi to hide from family and friends?

You do know that it is also difficult for bi guys to come out to friends and family due to a whole bunch of stigmas attached to being bi. If you don't believe me, just research it. You're question is a great example of a stigma.

 

[Freespirited2011]

Extremely true. It all comes down to some one else thinking they know better than you who and what is suppose to turn you on and get you off.

But to answer the original question, I can only answer for myself. Yes, I feel a difference. Physically, mentally and emotionally. And these differences have evolved over the years.
My very first time to go down on a guy was during a game of truth or dare with two girls, me and my best friend.( I keep meaning to post it in the "What was your first gay experience" thread) My friend considered himself to straight to try any experiment. But he allowed me to service him. From jr high to high school I performed on command and he never returned the favor. That was my first guy.
But fortunately he wasn't my only guy playmate during those years or I would have been more messed up than I am now.
But my first kiss with a girl was wonderful and thrilling. It happened before that game of truth or dare ( she was one of the players in that game) She was fun and it was guiltless and wonderful. I was Platonic friends with her older brother but really hung around him to be with her and sneak off when ever we could.
So my first relationship with a girl was as great as it could be and my first with a guy was very one sided. So they "felt" very different.
But like I said, I met a better class of guy pretty fast.

But I feel my sexuality is not all that I am. It doesn't define me, nor enforce character traits from a bad Ed Wood movie. (Which is pretty much all Ed Wood movies) For the people in my day to day life, my sexuality is only the business of me and any one I want to have sex with. No one else's business.
If I told my family and some of my friends I'm bi they would be just as upset as if I said gay. No difference to them really. So no, I don't call myself bi to hide from any one. I call myself bi because that's what I am. I have strong, involuntary and uncontrollable reflex reaction to sexual stimuli from attractive people both genders. What I DO about it is a case by case bases. But the urges are genuine, ingrained, and not for "fooling" any one. It's a great way to be.

I love this comment!
You have explained it all exactly the same way I feel it!
Its good to know that there are so many like minded people out there

 

[gibbons]

I love this comment!
You have explained it all exactly the same way I feel it!
Its good to know that there are so many like minded people out there

I agree! Thanks!

 

[Singularity]

You do know that it is also difficult for bi guys to come out to friends and family due to a whole bunch of stigmas attached to being bi. If you don't believe me, just research it. You're question is a great example of a stigma.

And it's the keeping the sexuality under wraps that gives the majority more reason to condemn it. If more bisexuals would come out and explain just exactly how they felt, more people would open up to the possibility that it might be more normal as they make it out to be.

I'm not bisexual but from what I've read here and there I can imagine that with a girl it's more emotional and romantic while with a guy it's more intense and adventurous.

Of course, I may be just waffling on here. Feel free to correct me.

 

[Peterdragin]

Extremely true. It all comes down to some one else thinking they know better than you who and what is suppose to turn you on and get you off.

But to answer the original question, I can only answer for myself. Yes, I feel a difference. Physically, mentally and emotionally. And these differences have evolved over the years.
My very first time to go down on a guy was during a game of truth or dare with two girls, me and my best friend.( I keep meaning to post it in the "What was your first gay experience" thread) My friend considered himself to straight to try any experiment. But he allowed me to service him. From jr high to high school I performed on command and he never returned the favor. That was my first guy.
But fortunately he wasn't my only guy playmate during those years or I would have been more messed up than I am now.
But my first kiss with a girl was wonderful and thrilling. It happened before that game of truth or dare ( she was one of the players in that game) She was fun and it was guiltless and wonderful. I was Platonic friends with her older brother but really hung around him to be with her and sneak off when ever we could.
So my first relationship with a girl was as great as it could be and my first with a guy was very one sided. So they "felt" very different.
But like I said, I met a better class of guy pretty fast.

But I feel my sexuality is not all that I am. It doesn't define me, nor enforce character traits from a bad Ed Wood movie. (Which is pretty much all Ed Wood movies) For the people in my day to day life, my sexuality is only the business of me and any one I want to have sex with. No one else's business.
If I told my family and some of my friends I'm bi they would be just as upset as if I said gay. No difference to them really. So no, I don't call myself bi to hide from any one. I call myself bi because that's what I am. I have strong, involuntary and uncontrollable reflex reaction to sexual stimuli from attractive people both genders. What I DO about it is a case by case bases. But the urges are genuine, ingrained, and not for "fooling" any one. It's a great way to be.

Exactly!! Thank YOU

 

[jmadaf]

I have always been attracted to both, but I got married I thought I would not want cock. But the opposite happened I ended up wanting cock more. Now I use marriage to hid my love for cock.

 

[mnpervert]

Yes it is different as others have said women being more intimate in general. However there are men that I have had amazing sex with and made love to. It's just a general statement.
Yes I am out to family my mom and sister appreciate that they can discuss sex with men with me. Some friends and coworkers know. Current wife knows but said it does nothing for her and doesnt want anything to do wtih it.