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Im baffled, Advice Please!

I don't know if Jasun has it pegged exactly right - I doubt somebody would spend ten days texting angling for a hook-up, then spend four hours cuddling. But one thing IS clear. He's no longer interested. So it's time for you to no longer be interested, too. What happened? No idea. I'm guessing he found somebody he was into even more than he was into you. Just assume that's what happened, and get on with your life.

Lex
 
OK, yeah, maybe I'm a bit short...

but that said... he was interested but now he's not. Maybe it was you, maybe it was him thinking he wanted something he doesn't.

Either way... he's not interested and you should just lose his number and move on.
 
>>>OK, yeah, maybe I'm a bit short...

Don't set up the volleyball if you don't want it spiked. :)

Lex
 
Yeah, you pretty much have two weeks of reasons to think he wasn't that interested. Sucks I know, but chalk it up to learning experience.
 
Maybe the reason he drove so far was because he was expecting more, and the reason he's disappeared is because he didn't get it.
 
i know its more satisfying to know why someone loses interest, but sometimes guys just disappear, especially after the first meeting. its sad that some guys not only lack the gutts to say something ("sorry, im just not feeling it"), but even act like everything is excellent, right up until they cut off all communication. but it probably wont be the last time you experience something like that. now you know.
 
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