I'm doing it tomorrow

[ElMmSM]

I've decideed to come out tomorrow to 2 of my closet friends, who are now dating after hiding it form me for a month and telling me a few days ago they had just started going out.

That little lie escalated into some more huge drama among or little group of friends, but after discussing everything we finally understood how we each felt and why there "forbidden love", as I like to call it, was hidden from me. And I think we became better friends with our little discussion and now I feel like I can really trust them so yea.

Wish me luck and hope it doesnt blow up in my face like everything else does

 

[SantaCBear]

I hope you're coming OUT because YOU want to and believe it's time to do so and not for any other reason -- Either way, best of luck!

 

[Yorkeys Knob]

Good Luck my friend, hope everything goes as planned for you

 

[ElMmSM]

No they're not guys, guy and girl, gretest friends I've ever had.

And I did it tonight while at the park, and I just asked hem what is the most obvious thing about me and my friend said well I want to say something but I'm afraid im wrong, and I told her to just say it and that it would be ok.

And she just said, that you're gay? And I was like yea, and my other friend, sat there with this look of shock on his face. The day before he had just told me I was probably the straightest person he had ever met and I felt that was Total BS,

BUt now I'm out to my closet friends and I've never felt happier in my life. I've never felt so happy in my life and I'm glad they were so accepting even though my one of them said, they knew a long time ago but it was just a suspicion and I did tell them I've tried being so obvious so that one day they could just ask me.

But yea.







YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!! I'm on Cloud 9

 

[G-Lexington]

You never realize how heavy the burden is until it's gone.

Welcome to the other side.

Lex

 

[ElMmSM]

I'm doing it again also maybe tonight with another friend or 2. He's been able to regain trust with me and I know he knows more than anyone else. I really do think the friend I plan on telling is gay also. Like really gay.

HOpefully it goes well and no one ends up spilling something on me.

 

[evil_danger]

thats great news, but can I ask why your friends where keeping their relationship from you, just nosy I guess lol.

 

[Eagle653]

Congratulations! It looks like you're on a roll now. You'll be leading the Pride Parade by next June LOL.

Seriously, all the best. Glad it's going well. Keep in touch and let us know what's happening. Your story is inspiring!

 

[ElMmSM]

thats great news, but can I ask why your friends where keeping their relationship from you, just nosy I guess lol.

Well, They thought I would "freak out" along with another friend.

I also came out to them because it explained something else, which I wrote about here
Of course of of them already knew everything and what had happened, although there are still a few things I think they failed to understand.

And I didnt get to do it today, It was sunny in the morning and 3 hours later, there was , what seemed like a hurricane, flooding my streeet along with the city, which was really weird. And the thunder was so crazy!

So my friend ended up calling my alter saying we wouldnt be able to go see the Nanny Dairies because he had to go home due to the rain since the road to his house floods BADLY whenever it rains so he had to get home before the road was under water.

So hopefully maybe tomorrow I'll do it.

But also, right now, I feel regret for telling my 2 friends already because somethings were brought to my attention and I'm now regretting ever telling them a bit.

 

[Shepherd 2]

I hope you're coming OUT because YOU want to and believe it's time to do so and not for any other reason -- Either way, best of luck!

Right on SantaCBear, a very wise bear.
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