I'm no good on top :( as a bottom

[thisisinteresting]

Okay so I'm almost always a bottom with my boyfriend, that's just how I like it. Anyway, I'm turned on by dominance so I'm usually in a more submissive position (I like plain ol' missionary) but sometimes he wants me on top because it'd turn him on if I came on him... which sounds plenty fine and hot to me, but I really suck at it. I don't even really know if I'm asking for tips or advice or what, but I can't get any good rhythm going... Closest I get he pops out and I can't even quickly get him back in so it kills the mini-moment and we usually just end up rolling over. Last time it was our second time going at it though so he wasn't as hard as he could've been, probably making it easier. Oh, and he's not too small or anything, we're both pretty average.

Anyway, anybody else ever have a similar problem and perhaps find a solution? I was thinking maybe putting my feet on the bed instead of my knees, if that makes sense. If I could practice right now, I sure as hell would, but alas... I can't.

 

[biscottiboi]

I just recently did the riding on top position and I loved it. I felt like I was in control and I really liked looking at my partners face and his expressions and I went different speeds and did or didnt let him buck into me. I like it a whole lot better than the fucking me from behind. It seems like I am doing my part this way and it turns me on that I was able to rub his stomach and chest while we were fucking. Just give it some time, unless you have no motor skills you will get the rhythm down. Practice makes perfect!!

 

[G-Lexington]

Have you tried doing it on your sides?

Lex

 

[Shepherd 2]

I say," Practice, practice, practice,
and remember all things cumto those who continue
to practice."
Shep+

 

[Jacobson]

I can't top to save my life. Only once did I actually fuck someone and they came while I did that. I don't know. I think my dick is too small to top or something cuz everytime I try to top someone it always slips out. And then I don't like the way it feels. Well, my penis serves more as decorative ornament than actual functional tool. If it wasn't because it comes in handy to urinate while standing when you're out in the bush then I don't think I'd have any use for it. I don't like getting blow jobs, and even less sticking it in somewhere. I've always wondered what the appeal of being a top is. This doesn't limit my experience with bottoms though. That's why god made dildos, fingers and rim jobs.

 

[Pushyourluck]

God I have the opposite feeling. I love to just ride until the cows come home! I guess it boils down to being control, got to have that control and on top you're the one in charge of the steering wheel.

 

[G-Lexington]

I like doing both.

Lex