I'm sick of psycho/wierdo/stalkers

[Ekim23]

Take that bitch loooool

 

[RationalLunacy]

***Looks at avatar. Locates Las Vegas on map.***

 

[shyboysf]

If you survive a few more years, you'll be of no interest to anyone. Then you can breathe and go out again... at ANY time of the day or night with no fear.

Haha! That is so true! There is something to be said for reaching the age of 35, when you magically become completely invisible in the gay world. True, it can be a little lonely, but on the other hand it's very liberating. Let's hear it for the Fabulous Gay Dinosaurs! (We know who we are...)

 

[frankfrank]

***Looks at avatar. Locates Las Vegas on map.***

***Realizes that Rational Lunacy found more than one Las Vegas listed, and RL decides to travel to the older of the two. Watches faithfully with a telescope while Rational Lunacy heads to northeastern New Mexico***

***When it's confirmed that RL is fruitlessly and harmlessly traipsing around New Mexico, I embark toward my Nevada destination***

That's a drag, Chris, but it sounds like you've had a lousy "draw of cards" as well - certainly not everybody is like that.

I hope this bad luck won't deter you from making an appearance, or sticking around for longer than only appearing, at the Las Vegas JUB meet in a few months.

 

[Lukeee]

I'm afraid this went right over my head as I'm not quite sure I understand what you mean.
:/
I hope that I'll survive a few more years.. ._.

He means you will be old and nobody will want you. They are only doing it because you are young and pretty.

 

[Fire]

He means you will be old and nobody will want you. They are only doing it because you are young and pretty.

Yes, that was the ostensible meaning of the post, but we shouldn't ignore the subtext which is that he is old and nobody wants him.

Also important to note: Bringing up this phenomenon on a thread which is tangentally related at best is his way of feeling sorry for himself in public--one of his very favourite pastimes.

 

[fabulouslyghetto]

These people have your number because you gave it to them, correct? And they know where you live because you told them, correct?

These things don't just randomly happen, sounds like you're letting too many people into your life and not being very selective at that.

 

[figjam]

If you survive a few more years, you'll be of no interest to anyone. Then you can breathe and go out again... at ANY time of the day or night with no fear.

lol

 

[dpnice]

lol

figjam if that is you in your avatar I may well consider taking evening classes in '5 steps to becoming a stalker'.

 

[Ekim23]

i usually get stalked by crazy middle aged ladies and old people for some reason. they get pretty scary too

LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Beware of the old ladies... lool


And I've always managed to never been stalked by anyone, beating the hell out of em ... always work... lol

 

[StlKj]

And to add, yes, I Gave these people my phone number, and other things.
Because at first, they seemed normal.
That's usually the case.


And BJ wtf, why do you gotta go and bring that up, I apologized to you profusely....

Darlin', you have to develop your intuition about these kinds of people. When we make ourselves TOO accessible to just anyone who we kind of like, we let our guard down and forget to really pay attention to them. Sometimes we forget to really pay attention to them because we're busy basking in the attention they're willing to give us.

Stay in control of the information flow--get their numbers instead of giving out yours. Ask them questions about themselves--get to know things about their friendships, past relationships--anything that seems like you're just developing connections, but might also reveal something about their tendencies in a relationship. Practice being open and approachable, but not too accessible. They should have to work a little and prove themselves before they're allowed in too closely.

Also, examine what kind of person you're finding yourself attracted to. You might have patterns of attraction that you're not even aware of. What really interests you or draws you to a guy? Do you have a type that you continually get involved with? How much of yourself do you give away, perhaps too soon? Are there signs you're just not seeing, but which are readily available?

Not everyone is weird or psycho, so if you seem to be drawing an abundance of them to you, it may be time to start looking at your behaviors for the key.

 

[Joshua_me]

the only stalker/weirdo that actually made me nervous was a guy i had a class with - who i later found in my room, in my drawer, counting my condoms...
...not cool, and very creepy

Maybe he was figuring out how many he could swipe without you noticing.

 

[StlKj]

Sorry for getting all advice-giving-guy. Realized you hadn't asked for any.