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so today at work i did something nice for a coworker and helped him out and he said "I'm so happy I could kiss you!"...we laughed about it and he proceeded to say "you know I'm gay right?" then we talked about how I was also but I don't tell people usually and he tells me about how he was outed by someone in the past. After all this, I can't stop thinking about him and how much I'd like to kiss him (since he offered ;)) but I think he may be married and he's also older than me but I don't know how much... just wondering how, or if, I should approach this. If you have a negative opinion or rude comment about this though, I don;t want to hear it. Thank you.
 
If he's married, leave him alone. When you say married, do you mean to a man?
 
Do something nice for him again....:-) Seriously, talk to him again and get to know more about him. If you were able to discuss both of you being gay, he obviously isn't afraid to talk. Go for coffee or lunch together and become friends. If that leads to something else, more the better. Good luck.

Craiger
 
Please ditch him. There are all kinds of benign narcissists out there, who will string you along just for the sake of having you drool for them and that's it. He sounds like one of them. On top of that, married guys are a big no no. Trust me, they only bring TROUBLE.
 
Craiger said:
Do something nice for him again....:-) Seriously, talk to him again and get to know more about him. If you were able to discuss both of you being gay, he obviously isn't afraid to talk. Go for coffee or lunch together and become friends. If that leads to something else, more the better. Good luck. Craiger
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^^^^^^^^^^^ This. Be friendly and kind to him and also be open to him. So tell him more about yourself (eg when having coffee or lunch together) and it seems likely to me that he will also tell more about himself. Great man, that you have met another nice gay guy at your workplace. Take your time (or otherwise just ask him if he is married and/or has a boyfriend).
Towards my opinion, also no problem at all to become friends with a gay co-worker who has a husband.
 
I don't get to see him often cause we have different schedules, but I did yesterday. We talked for a few, just about work and stuff. Theres a new kid at work and he told me the new kid at work is cute. I also tried being more comfortable around him now that he knows about me. Touching his arm/shoulder and what not. I don't know for sure if he's even married either which he may not be...
 
In case anyone is still interested, something happened last night. I took some of this advice and was just friendly and open with him. He kept saying i was cute yesterday and ended up saying he wanted to kiss me.. so we started making out.
 
Now's the time to talk to him about his status. Is he single or is he attached? If there is someone else in his life the proper thing to do would be to back off and adjust it to a "just friendship" situation. If he is single then enjoy getting to know him a bit better.

Craiger
 
Lots of people say "I could kiss you!" and also say "I could kill you!" but they don't mean it literally.

At most it may have been innocent flirting or just a way to find out if you too are gay.

I think some people can tell you from experience, don't have sex with co-workers or bosses! It can make working together awkward once you've had someone's cock inside you.
 
You should try to find out if he's married or not. If he's not then spend some time and see what happens. If he is with someone else I would recommend a few steps back and not getting involved sexually or romantically. I think that will probably just lead to you getting hurt, regardless of how warm and fuzzy it starts out. At the very least a new friend can't hurt.
 
In my experience married guys are nothing but trouble especially if they are "straight" :wink: But it depends on your situation at work, unless your planning on leaving... I agree dating co-workers or bosses can be very awkward.
 
Hey guys... so it's gotten somewhat weird with my coworker..
We don't see each other that often (different schedules) but when he does see me, he tries to get me alone so we can make out. He says he "loves" kissing me and checking me out (which i catch him doing a lot...). Ive taken the advice of some of you and backed off because he is attached (to a man) and I don't really want to do anything with him anymore. The problem is HE wants to do things with ME. A few days ago he wanted me to come to his house to hang out while his bf was away but I said no I didn't think it was a good idea, he wasn't happy with that i don't think. Flash forward to yesterday, everything seems normal when we interacted at work. Joking around, talking it was all good. But he again kept checking me out and wanted to kiss me. then at the end of the night stopped me and said I know you don't want to do anything but we can at least be friends and left off with saying "i love you"...twice. That really freaked me out so now i have to talk to him and tell him how uncomfortable i am...
 
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