Intersex/Good girl problems

[luckynumbah7]

Yeah seems like she came here seeking acceptance and understanding and all she got was more of the same. What a shame. I on the other hand have no knowledge or experience with this condition but am interested and would like to know more. I certainly don't feel the need to criticize her and claim I know more about her body than she does. I am sorry you got such an insensitive welcome.

Her question wasn't acceptance from people on the Internet. Because that isn't a question. If she wanted acceptance she could go to some intersex forums - they're not hidden and again, Google is your bosom chum. But if she went there she'd have to be able to say what's 'wrong', not expect people who're familiar with that particular kind of anatomy to.....I don't actually know. She complains about belief, but if the people who've eyes who've seen many a clitoris don't believe there's a physical discrepancy and she has no paperwork then what answer does she expect one to have? You can't really argue with a gynecologist, they've literally seen thousands. She's seen, what, 3, maybe.

You think on how she'll get taken seriously by people in meatspace and be sure to post those results, there's a difference between dismissive and factual. You think on it, I'll wait.

 

[luckynumbah7]

-I mean, sure, I thought she was getting her images from mainstream porn, which generally isn't a good idea. But it turns out her porn is anime. Assuming she's actually 27 and straight, she hasn't seen what a woman looks like in.....ever, cuz she's already said she didn't watch porn with actual people.

You all have seen anime, yes. Because that's even worse than the generic porn for genital depiction. And wwe is wrestling, unless something else was meant. It... skintight outfits don't count as porn for most people and do not show breadth of genitalia.

So I'm going to reserve my own personal tale o'woe because 'they made fun of me' is not an ambiguous genitalia indication. Itsucks, but that doesn't mean she's odd. Insults aren't uncommon because teenagers and (specifically inexperienced) straight men are often jackasses, whether there's an actual discrepancy or no. There usually isn't, by the way. It's generally just inexperience. The amount of women who think their vulva is 'off' is ridiculously high. Whole booming surgical business, as a matter of fact, for absolutely common variation. And I think her post is a good indication of how that occurs.

Look at it this way. I'd be suggesting she get her ass to therapy in either case - God knows I go myself and my body attitude is a helluva lot healthier than the one shown here.

And bankside, go sit on your surprise and spin.

 

[checkinthingsout]

I was born 46XX. Despite my female appearance and internal (yet infertile) female organs, I have a small penis. Everyone thinks intersex people do not exist so when I tell them such they go batshit. I told my mother about this and the symptoms I went all through my entire life and she too went batshit saying I was lying.

And my family is pressuring me with dating, even trying to hook me up with strangers my age I never met. A lot of my cousins are married with kids and I guess they think I'm never getting married or what not. Honestly I chase guys away with my old fashioned dating preferences, that I think chivalry isn't dead and I believe sex is only for the wedding night. I guess I'm a bit boring, huh? I mean I can cook, clean, fix stuff, do laundry, pay bills, and I'm honest, communicative, quiet, patient, respective, and faithful in my relationships.

Are you asking for advice from this forum? Or merely venting? What would you like us to weigh in on?

 

[imbroguedfella]

Oh wow people are still replying to this?

Before Lucky can be the keyboard warrior with his "SORRY YOU'RE A WOMAN THERE IS NO THIRD GENDER LOL" argument, lemme point out that my fucked up chromosomes are the reason why I have a penis and a vagina since birth, why I can make excessive natural T, why I'm near sterile and why I was bullied and abused for the majority of my life.

And being straight? I've been pansexual since childhood. Yeah yeah I was still healing from a bad polyamorous online relationship last year at the time.

And I'm both venting and looking for advice.

 

[imbroguedfella]

And Lucky wants to see "medical proof" but as a person with common sense I'm NOT posting things with highly sensitive personal info risking identity theft nor will I show my genitals to everyone. He can bark all he wants but he does not know me.