Is anal over?

[CochondeMontreal]

So I've noticed this trend on the apps where guys aren't having anal sex anymore. Seems like I have to point out in my headline that I'm looking for anal. More often than not guys are looking for jerking off or oral only. All well and good if that's your thing, but not me my ass is my pleasure and if a guy isn't going to finger, toy, rim or fuck my ass, he's not for me. The thing is too, I don't message these guys, they message me! In all apps where I've got a profile, I mention very explicitly that I'm 100% anal. And yet these guys message me asking me if I'll suck their dick. When I say: only if you eat my ass, they do silent. It's been a while since I've had sex -for me sex is anal- and it almost feels as if anal sex is over and no one is doing it anymore. Is it just a Montreal thing, or is this happening elsewhere?

 

[like2flirt]

Must be the app you are using. I haven't noticed any problems.

 

[PalacePaul]

I haven't used an app in years, but most people only read half of what you write, and they don't get the other half

 

[frankifab]

Do they have a sex club or gay bathhouse available in your area ?

I don't think that anal is over in those places

 

[KaraBulut]

Anal isn't over. What I keep hearing from friends on the apps is that they have been taken over by groups with special fetishes. Someone looking for just an old-fashioned hookup might have to hunt around to find people with similar interests.

 

[Neptune708]

Can relate to that as it's also a preference for me. To me, there seems to be more people who outright describe themselves as "side", or just looking for oral. At the same time, I also notice more fetish-oriented profiles too. I guess preferences also have trends?

 

[CochondeMontreal]

Today I realized I haven't had sex in two months! Crazy enough, I've been so horny and been fingering my hole on a nightly basis.

 

[CochondeMontreal]

Anal isn't over. What I keep hearing from friends on the apps is that they have been taken over by groups with special fetishes. Someone looking for just an old-fashioned hookup might have to hunt around to find people with similar interests.

Dude! This 100%! These days there seems to be a trend into violent stuff that I'm not into. A while back, I hooked up with this guy who starts slapping me while I suck his dick. Then, he grabs my hair and forces me onto his dick and I start gagging, he fucking slaps me. But the kicker was, at one point he wants to lick his armpit and it smells, so I back away, then he slapped me so hard I swear to god I started seeing spots. That's when I got up and I was like, ok, I'm done. Then he's all like "Oh sorry, I got out of hand, you didn't mention safe word, just suck my dick I'm close' I got dressed and told him I was done. I thought it was just him, but no man... all these profiles are into beating people up and getting their dick sucked.

Meanwhile, I'm a guy that prefers oil massages, cuddles, kissing and anal play, but finding guys into that is next to impossible now. I'm so sick of these guys playing at being some 'master'. Cuz before the guy that slapped me, there was this other guy who I was getting down with and I start sucking his dick, then he starts taking it away, making me reach for it and going "I'm your master and you want this" and I'm like, fuck off. Nothing turns me off faster than this weird stuff

 

[CochondeMontreal]

Can relate to that as it's also a preference for me. To me, there seems to be more people who outright describe themselves as "side", or just looking for oral. At the same time, I also notice more fetish-oriented profiles too. I guess preferences also have trends?

Yeah, SAME! Like, all my profiles online are pics of my ass. Plus, all these guys into oral are only into sucking dick but not eating ass. It's just guys looking to get serviced but not actually reciprocating.

 

[CochondeMontreal]

Do they have a sex club or gay bathhouse available in your area ?

I don't think that anal is over in those places

There's a couple. Funny enough, when I first moved out here to Montreal, I used to work at a bathhouse while I was at University. We had theme nights and they had me working on the 'Naturiste' nights. Essentially everyone had to be naked, you were given a towel but not allowed to wrap it around yourself, you had to be naked. And I used to work naked. I used to get fucked SO MUCH! It was so much fun! The clients would fuck me while I was cleaning a room, or folding some sheets/towels, or in the storage... It was the best time! On fetish nights, I'd wear a little thong and because I was naked, I'd just get oiled up to moisturize, sometimes if I'd be into a guy, I'd be like, help me with my back... haha, then they'd inevitably rub my ass with oil and suddenly they'd be fucking me, it was so fun! But ever since I've had to 'grow up' graduate from school, get 'real job' and that bathhouse closed I seldom get laid anymore.

It's funny cuz I remember growing up in the suburbs and living in my parents basement and thinking: one day I'm gonna have my own place and I'll be able to have loads of sex. But nah... I remember when I was kid all these guys were in their 30's and 40's but they never had a place to host. So I used to have a lot of car sex or we'd drive to an abandoned packing lot, one time a guy fucked me in a porta-potty, or I'd hit the bathhouse in Toronto. But guys never seemed to have a place. Now that I'm an adult with my own place and money to rent a motel/hotel room if I wanted to, there are no guys!

 

[KaraBulut]

Dude! This 100%! These days there seems to be a trend into violent stuff that I'm not into. A while back, I hooked up with this guy who starts slapping me while I suck his dick. Then, he grabs my hair and forces me onto his dick and I start gagging, he fucking slaps me. But the kicker was, at one point he wants to lick his armpit and it smells, so I back away, then he slapped me so hard I swear to god I started seeing spots. That's when I got up and I was like, ok, I'm done. Then he's all like "Oh sorry, I got out of hand, you didn't mention safe word, just suck my dick I'm close' I got dressed and told him I was done. I thought it was just him, but no man... all these profiles are into beating people up and getting their dick sucked.

Meanwhile, I'm a guy that prefers oil massages, cuddles, kissing and anal play, but finding guys into that is next to impossible now. I'm so sick of these guys playing at being some 'master'. Cuz before the guy that slapped me, there was this other guy who I was getting down with and I start sucking his dick, then he starts taking it away, making me reach for it and going "I'm your master and you want this" and I'm like, fuck off. Nothing turns me off faster than this weird stuff

And there's a lot of these fetishists who are amateurs. The BDSM community has a lot of rules- one of the first being safety and the use of the safe word.

The other issue that I've been hearing about is that there's a lot of sex workers using hookup apps because so many of the other platforms have become obsolete or want an advertising fee.

 

[CochondeMontreal]

And there's a lot of these fetishists who are amateurs. The BDSM community has a lot of rules- one of the first being safety and the use of the safe word.

The other issue that I've been hearing about is that there's a lot of sex workers using hookup apps because so many of the other platforms have become obsolete or want an advertising fee.

BIG TIME! Bots and catfishers too

 

[magicdick]

So I've noticed this trend on the apps where guys aren't having anal sex anymore. Seems like I have to point out in my headline that I'm looking for anal. More often than not guys are looking for jerking off or oral only. All well and good if that's your thing, but not me my ass is my pleasure and if a guy isn't going to finger, toy, rim or fuck my ass, he's not for me. The thing is too, I don't message these guys, they message me! In all apps where I've got a profile, I mention very explicitly that I'm 100% anal. And yet these guys message me asking me if I'll suck their dick. When I say: only if you eat my ass, they do silent. It's been a while since I've had sex -for me sex is anal- and it almost feels as if anal sex is over and no one is doing it anymore. Is it just a Montreal thing, or is this happening elsewhere?

I recently (8 months ago) got fucked for the first time and am now obssessed. I love getting fucked in my pussy (yes, I will only call it my pussy - I wanna be the woman when I'm getting fucked) and I love it on my back, kegs up in the air, screaming and begging for my man to cum inside me. Woke up this morning to a gf gone away for 2 weeks and my 3 lovers are all on vacation for several days. So horny and no one to turn to. It's not all about me, so to you point. All of us encounter the same problem at times. Now I enjoy sucking dick and getting my recommended daily allowance of cum, but could not go without getting fucked. Guys who won't fuck or rim me: to each his own. Most guys think that anyone who wants to be fucked would also like to suck cock. I would make that assumption. I'm a whore for cock in my pussy, but I'll give/take a cock-cum blowjob any day. Good luck. Wish me luck too. You may just find me walking the street in my snobby New England town.

 

[snakeeater1]

Magic Dick .. I stoped anal fucking back during the AIDS epidemic! I have been fucked only twice since that time. I’ll tell ya why. I was always a bottom (my preference) and I don’t like rubbers. I liked the feeling of that cum shoved up my ass! I had a Doctor tell me oral sex was much safer, even without a rubber! Then I tried oral sex and I found out I liked giving head better than receiving. I never suck guys using a rubber, I want to feel that load sliding down my throat! Even though sometimes I choke and gag on their cock! This turns me on like never before…

 

[BiBtm64]

So I've noticed this trend on the apps where guys aren't having anal sex anymore. Seems like I have to point out in my headline that I'm looking for anal. More often than not guys are looking for jerking off or oral only. All well and good if that's your thing, but not me my ass is my pleasure and if a guy isn't going to finger, toy, rim or fuck my ass, he's not for me. The thing is too, I don't message these guys, they message me! In all apps where I've got a profile, I mention very explicitly that I'm 100% anal. And yet these guys message me asking me if I'll suck their dick. When I say: only if you eat my ass, they do silent. It's been a while since I've had sex -for me sex is anal- and it almost feels as if anal sex is over and no one is doing it anymore. Is it just a Montreal thing, or is this happening elsewhere?

I've found on apps that most guys won't or can't read a profile and understand it. I'll explicitly say that I'm safe sex only, and I cannot host. I'll get messages saying "can you host? Do you bareback? " (usually misspelled) ... If ever I start to hold out hopes for the future of the human race, I just go onto apps to bring myself back to reality. The future is idiocracy.

To your question: I don't think anal is over but it can be hard to get. Some guys are not into it. Others would probably do it with a younger guy and I find it harder to get as I grow older. Some guys might do it with someone they know, but I suspect they don't trust any random stranger to be prepared and clean. Others might not trust their ability to get or maintain an erection in a hookup situation and wearing a condom. A blowjob is quicker and simpler.

The best anal sex I've had has been with fuck buddies or friends with benefits. When guys know each other and are relaxed, not rushed, and are in a safe situation, that's when the magic happens.

I only cruise these days and I've given up on apps. I go to a forest and try my luck, so the options are more limited. Occasionally I get lucky; recently I got fucked up against a tree by a horny younger guy who said afterwards that it was his first time fucking in public. Those times are rare. Most guys just want a blow job or to play and fondle. I put that down to the situation, and me.

So I think: no, anal is not over, just that I'm getting less of it and it's likely young guys with nice bodies and firm round asses are getting it. Good luck to them. I've lived a good life with no regrets.

 

[magicdick]

Magic Dick .. I stoped anal fucking back during the AIDS epidemic! I have been fucked only twice since that time. I’ll tell ya why. I was always a bottom (my preference) and I don’t like rubbers. I liked the feeling of that cum shoved up my ass! I had a Doctor tell me oral sex was much safer, even without a rubber! Then I tried oral sex and I found out I liked giving head better than receiving. I never suck guys using a rubber, I want to feel that load sliding down my throat! Even though sometimes I choke and gag on their cock! This turns me on like never before…

Yes, there is something special about having a man's cock in one's mouth, about bringing him to orgasm and swishing, savoring, swallowing that load of luscious cum. As to choking and gagging, I suppose I am one of the lucky ones with no gag instinct. I've yet t meet a cock I couldn't deep throat. In fact, I beg guys to shove the shaft down my throat. I love the feeling of his cock at the back of my throat.

As to fucking, I am not promiscuous and get checked regularly for STDs. I love getting fucked way too much to stop.

You don't mention facials. I almost fainted when I got my first facial. I can still feel that hot, wet, gooey stuff splattering on my face. I can still see my lover stroking as he moved his cock back and forth and up and down making sure to cover my face. And the smile oh his face! He was enjoying it as much as I was.

 

[BlondMichael]

I hope not!!

 

[magicdick]

So I've noticed this trend on the apps where guys aren't having anal sex anymore. Seems like I have to point out in my headline that I'm looking for anal. More often than not guys are looking for jerking off or oral only. All well and good if that's your thing, but not me my ass is my pleasure and if a guy isn't going to finger, toy, rim or fuck my ass, he's not for me. The thing is too, I don't message these guys, they message me! In all apps where I've got a profile, I mention very explicitly that I'm 100% anal. And yet these guys message me asking me if I'll suck their dick. When I say: only if you eat my ass, they do silent. It's been a while since I've had sex -for me sex is anal- and it almost feels as if anal sex is over and no one is doing it anymore. Is it just a Montreal thing, or is this happening elsewhere?

Anal is not over. The majority of my lovers want to fuck me as much as I want them to fuck me. I am like you insofar as I need to get my pussy fucked, but I would not turn away a guy looking for a blowjob. I love having cock and cum in my mouth too mucking fuch!

 

[magicdick]

I hope not!!

It is not over. I could get my pussy fucked every day if it weren't for my gf. As things stand, I have to wait for her to go on holiday before I can host. (Most of my lovers are bi and cannot host. SAD!!!) Keep the faith, babe.

 

[USEDCAR]

I don't think it is; i see so many posts on the apps of bottoms looking to be fucked.

Anal sex is amazing the feeling of sliding your cock inside a guys ass is amazing.