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Is Dating Someone 15 Years Older or Younger Too Big of an Age Difference?

Is Dating Someone 15 Years Older or Younger Too Big of an Age Difference?

  • Yes

    Votes: 21 24.4%

  • No

    Votes: 56 65.1%

  • Not Sure

    Votes: 9 10.5%
  • Total voters
    86
So do you ask to see his drivers license? When I start talking to a guy that's not even a question I ask if I'm attracted to him. I look younger than I am so a lot of guys don't realize my age. ;)
 
It's bad enough I post public pictures of myself here (what with my strong opinions and all)--I don't feel the need to drag his name or photo through the muck. :-)

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Funny this thread is even here since I right now am in a relationship with someone 15 years older then me. I used to think it was too great a difference, but as long as you both love each other (and you are of legal age of course), then it's all good.
 
cgymike said:
So what? You can't make an age judgement on that.
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yes i can. its my personal opinion based on my own experiences and i will stick by it. if it bothers you so what? shove off for all i care.

Frosty said:
I'm so sorry this happened. The reason I created this thread is because I'm exactly in that situation except I'm the younger guy in his mid twenties. I didn't ignore him but I'm really confused on whether I want to be with someone 15 years older than me or not. Before I met him I never pictured being with someone over 5 years older than me and then he came a long and we just clicked and had so much in common. He's one of the most amazing people I've ever met but I'm not sure I want to be with him or not because of his age.

I told him this yesterday and I could tell it hurt him a lot and I think I might've unintentionally led him on. I did want him a lot in the beginning but after a while I started to have doubts because of his age. He told me I was everything he pictured his dream man to be but wouldn't want to be with someone who has doubts. He's dated someone my age before and told himself never again but decided to give it one more try when he met me. I feel like such an asshole because he's such a wonderful guy. One of the most wonderful I've ever met.

He's the first guy I've ever dated and the thought of possibly staying together for over 10 years and then suddenly breaking up because things don't work out scares me. Not only for me but for him to be in his 50's and alone I'd feel like he wasted his years on me if he could've found his life partner while dating other people during that time. Until now and even when I created this thread I wasn't sure if I should continue to date him or not but I think I know what's best for both of us now. I'm still in the closet and am still insecure about dating a guy that much older than me and am still unsure if I want to date someone that much older than me so until I can get over my insecurities and figure out what I want, I shouldn't involve him in my mess. I'm not sure if I'll ever meet a guy that great again but I'm probably doing the right thing.
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it sounds to me that your issue isn't really so much with his age but your own insecurities. until you can be comfortable in your own skin as a gay man you may will find something in the next guy to derail your relationship.
 
My man is 20 years older than me. I can't say what's right for me is right for other people but i've never felt that attraction I feel towards guys my own age or younger than I have felt with older guys. I feel like my maturity level has always been higher than guys my own age so can relate more to older people than myself. It's a relationship though so it is not perfect and it takes a lot of work, like with any.
 
In the end it comes down to personal preference.

As it stands, I couldn't see myself with someone who was that much older or younger than myself. Generational gap, perhaps, or just perhaps having too much differences between us.

I mean on the surface it sounds like something that I wouldn't do, but never say never I suppose...

If you find a guy you like and get along with great, it shouldn't matter what your ages are so long you make each other happy and such...
 
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