Is he blowing me off?

[substerx]

So I met this guy online a few weeks ago and we'd been texting and calling for awhile before we had our first date Monday night at his place. And I think we really hit it off that night. We found out we had a lot in common with each other and the connection and attraction was definetly there and it was intense. We chatted for a couple hours and split two bottles of wine before we went up to his room to watch a movie (even though we both knew where it was going). We laid down on his bed and watched a movie for about 20 minutes before we started getting into it. We made out for a long time and ended up getting naked but nothing further than kissing and fondling (I don't put out on the first date and he said he doesn't either). I ended up spending the night. It was an INCREDIBLE night through and through. We bid farewell in the morning because we both had work but he said we'd see each other again and we'd do something for new years. Yesterday was his birthday so I texted him happy birthday and he basically just replied with thanks and nothing else. So I called and texted today to see what he was doing tonight and no reply for HOURS now. I know it's completely possible I'm overreacting and he just hasn't looked at his phone yet, but he seemed like someone who's constantly attached to their phone like I am. And I know I shouldn't get like this over someone I only had one date with but it's really tearing me up inside! It almost feels like the right guy for me is already gotten away now. Somebody please make sense of my predicament!

 

[LoveIsNow]

Probably. Just stop texting him. If he answers, good. If he doesn't, he doesn't. Move on and you'll find someone who will be as excited about you as you are about them.

 

[kevinsexh8]

I know how u feel. I feel the same way. well i hope u have luck with this guy and he's into u. I really tearing me up inside cause now he just want to be my friend. i'm in out of luck and my life suck without him.

well i just can tell u wait, don't look desesperate...

 

[mattyparson]

Wow, reading your post, I feel like I wrote it myself. This same thing, almost exactly, just happened to me. Read my post "First Heartbreak...this sucks" it'll be like reading your own story. I can definitely empathize with you. It totally sucks. I'm sorry you had to go through it cause I wouldn't wish this on anyone.

 

[substerx]

Whoa you're right. Our situations are....scary similar. Although I'm only at like the 70% point of everything you went through. Why is it that the gay breakup is so often just shutting one another out? I'm sure it happens with heterosexuals too, but it's just too often that we do this to each other.

I actually just stumbled on my guy's twitter and his last entry kind of gave the impression that that the current 3 days (his bday, new years eve and new years day) are always hard for him (I am not mentioned in any tweet of his which I don't think is good or bad necessarily) so I'm gonna give him the benefit of the doubt and back off til at least Saturday before I try contacting again.

Either way I'm too depressed to do anything tonight for new years. I got invited to a party I'm not gonna go to because I know I'd just be a sad buzzkill. I'm just staying at home and watch some movies. I won't even care when it's midnight. I just want this crap year to end already.

 

[adam91]

Just relax, if he really likes you he will come around. If not, it's his loss

 

[Telstra]

It happens ALL the time.

Thats why people need as many contacts as possible.
If one doesn't work go to the next one.

 

[ronnie54321]

Hang In there bud If it's right it's right if it's not it's not!