Is he flirting with me/giving me hints?

[asian1992]

Hi guys, I figured it would be best to post this here and see what others have to say about it.

Every day on the way to college in the morning or afternoon I walk past a guys house, I see him outside his house enjoying the weather at least once a week. We say hi a lot to the point that he has a cute nickname for me.
Today I saw him after college and stuck aroud for a conversation and not just a quick one while walking past. He called my by the nickname and said i make him smile and hes happy to see me. Bearing in mind we're not alone, poeple are around, hes not whispering or anything. I'm sure the people cant hear though, they are too far.
He asked me how college was, how my day was and i asked him the same. He then asked me if I had a girlfriend, I said no and laughed (i'm bisexual, but people say i have a gay face so for someone to ask me if i had a 'girl'friend was new). He said he desnt either cause hes always busy. Then he said he's surprised because of my 'very good looks'. He said if he was a few years younger he'd 'definately' go out with me. To be honest this really turned me on! I think hes mega cute but I chickened out and said thank you and gave him a big hug. I then walked away as I had to get home and said bye and 'take care, see you around'.

I hope I see him soon, I may try and make a move but I'm so so shy. What do you guys think? Is he giving me signs? Should I ignore it? Should I take the hint, if there are any? I'm 18 and he must be early in his 30s or late 30s. So we're both legal. I'm a smart person, nothing would go sexual without protection. I want to see him and ask if I can stand with him, or maybe if we could go inside his house. Or even ask him about his life, hes a great guy, good to talk to.

Thanks for reading and I hope to read some posts soon, you guys are great with advice! Take care

Edit: I know there may be a chance that he is just being friendly, but I dunno, it felt like more. Again, I'd love to hear some thoughts on this, thanks!

 

[HunterM]

There's no doubt that he's hitting on you. You both are legal; take it slow. Start making more conversations with him. Find out what his bobbies are. What does he do for a living? Where did he go for his last vacation? Find out if he's single or not. The more you get to know him, the more informed you are on what to do next.

 

[BlondeCanadian]

what are bobbies?

 

[seven2go]

Hitting on you?
The only way he could more obvious about it is if had shaken your dick instead of your hand....... .......

 

[HunterM]

what are bobbies?

Oh... sorry, I meant boobies. Just kidding! I meant hobbies

 

[BlondeCanadian]

ahah it sounded like it might have been some english slang.. i wasnt just being a smart ass I even looked to see if h and b were beside eachother. But yes this man is definately hitting on you!

 

[62624rd]

Take it slow

 

[Undisclosed]

Take it slow

...and deep.

 

[Atzesp]

Definitely, he's hitting on you. But as many guys have said here, take it slow. Don't rush things, try to hint him back so that he also get to know you're interested.

Only one thing: try to be sure that the age won't be a point - he said that "if he was younger" and so. It may have been to check your reaction, may have been because he really thinks he's too old for you. Once you are sure that age won't be a problem, go for it!

 

[asian1992]

Thanks so much for the advice guys! I'll definately go slow, I'm not looking for a relationship or anything, just mutual fun, if it gets that far. I hope I'll see him tomorrow

 

[MisterMajestic]

What is the special "Nickname" that he calls you when he sees you?

 

[stevexxx]

of course he is interested in you, if i were you i would throw in a heterosexual woman and a lesbian to the mix and see how things go from there