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So I work with this kid who is really cool and I have to say I have a bad crush on him. It's bad because I dont think he is gay and the people at work don't know I am either.

Although he might know., for obvious reasons.

If his facebook doesn't say he is interested in women it just is blank.. is he gay?
He's asked me to stay over a bunch of times after work when i close because my work is 2 hours away from my house..

last time that I stayed over the next morning the house was empty and i smelled his underwear in his room and shot a load on them... fu*keddd
 
Since you're married, you need to keep it in your pants.
 
yeah, I wondered about that as well.

Are you married to a woman, or a man?

If you're married to a woman, I think it would be safe to assume you're pretty closeted. If that's the case, why does it matter if this guy is gay or not? Where do you see this going?

If you're married to a man, well, unless you're in an open situation, where do you see this going?

Does this guy know you're married? Does he know you're gay?

We don't know if he's gay, and we aren't going to be able to tell you. All we know is what you know, and while we can speculate, it's just that, speculation based on information you provided. We don't have any back-story on him that lends us any more insight than you have.

Sooooo, if you're out, and your hubby doesn't care, I'd say make sure he knows you're gay, then see what happens.

If you're married to a woman/man expecting monogamy/closeted you need to check yourself and figure out your own shit before you pull someone else into it.
 
Well if he's gay and a JUB member you may have just outed yourself and explained how his underwear became cum stained. It's a good idea not to become sexually involved with co-workers.
 
and that, kids, is why you should never invite creepy men over to your place. theyre gonna leave their jizz in your underwear!

get your life in order before you start screwing men... and even then, dont screw your co-workers.
 
There are a lot of red flags to your story.

It has a bit of an obsessive nature. The focus is a co-worker.

Let's say he is gay. There's nothing good that can come of it- a relationship between a married man iand a friend/coworker is not a wise move.
 
There are indeed a lot of red flags.
 
ok sorry

to clarify.

i'm not married

i'm single.

i'm 23 he is 21
 
lucasss said:
to clarify.

i'm not married

i'm single.
Click to expand...

That's interesting, since your info says:

Join Date: Oct 2007
Status: Married
Posts: 54

No wonder that some people were (are) confused a bit.
 
yeah i'm def not married. i think i put that as a joke years ago.

stayed over his house last night.

always seems like he is hitting on my but nothing. like 70% gay
 
OK.

So what do you want out of this? We can't tell you if he's gay.
 
its getting really tough not to fuck him when i'm at his place. he always invites me over. we smoke lots of pot and drink some and it always seems like he wants to do something. said we should smoke a joint in his bedroom.

the thing is either he thinks im straight or he knows im gay and wants to fool around..
 
I would ask him if he was gay when you are at some point. Preferably in a public place in case things go south.
 
If, after all this time and all these trips to his place, if he hasn't come out to you then he's not comfortable being gay, so outright asking him if he's gay is not the answer!

Just make the move. You both are waiting for each other.

This is Coming Out topic #1.
 
So, after what 5-6 months you haven't asked him, you haven't told him about yourself, you're both high, and if that doesn't get you horny enough to make a fuckin' move, nothing ever will.

You get what you got, while you do what you've done.

Such is life.
 
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