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Is he interested or not?

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So a few weeks ago my newish friend (we see each other 1-2 times a month at raves) pulled me to the side at a rave and said he was bi, and thought he could tell me since im gay. He said only 2 other people know, so I was pretty shocked when he told me. I asked him what the most hes dont with a guy was, and he said hes only kissed a guy.

That night he asked me to give him a massage and put his arm around me as i escorted him to the bathroom cuz he said he was dehydrated. I was too shocked and rolling too hard to take advantage that night

He messaged me on facebook a couple times since that night to chat and said we should hang out outside of a rave. I also started messaging him since I thought he was interested in me. But every time I suggest im free to hang out he doesnt take up the opportunity or he will say he is busy.

Do you think he is really interested, or was it a 1 night kinda thing?
 
yes hes very interested but doesnt know what to do or he might be playing you but i dont get that feeling.
 
He sounds to be interested, but maybe not. I'm a very paranoid person at times so the first conclusion I jumped too was that he has another guy he is messaging. However, you should try to avoid being as paranoid as I am. All signs point out that he likes you. He went through the process of coming out to you and has taken steps to contacting you more than once. I would consider those both very big deals. It might just be a busy time for him. Just wait for the timing to be right. Ask him when HE is free and try and plan some time to go see him if you want to see where it goes. :)
 
I believe hes interested, I think he's just fearful how far he might go, keep after him but not too pushy, he's hot for you or he wouldn't have told you he's bi. I had a friend I met at a party in a similar situation, it took about a month but he fucked me, I'm a bottom so it was great. I find when guys are new to sex with another man they are more comfortable being tops, like there in control.
 
Hmmm

If raves in 2012 are at all like they were when I was younger in the late 90s, then people are on so many pills and G_d knows what while at them that I don't think I'd read much into this at all.

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blackbeltninja said:
Hmmm

If raves in 2012 are at all like they were when I was younger in the late 90s, then people are on so many pills and G_d knows what while at them that I don't think I'd read much into this at all.

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I do not want to sound negative on this one, but Blackbeltninja is right. Pills can cause stupid things. He was dehydrated hmm. Just take it slow.
 
Yes he's interested, you should visit him at his place.. if you know where he lives. I did that in a similar case. He was a temp at the company I worked. I found out where he lived. Visited him. I was nervous and inexperienced. We talked for the night. I left again. We became buddies, and he started visiting me at my place too. Then the opportunity to have sex came.
 
Update: We saw each other again this past weekend at another rave. We pretty much hung out with separate groups the entire night, but we did say hello. He has messaged me on Facebook every day since the rave, but it seems he is giving missed signals. He messaged me saying he has a crush on his girl, but she doesn't like him...but he will also message me just to say what's up and asked me to hang out this weekend, but I can't because I work :/

We will definitely see each other again later next month, but I don't know if I should make the first move or wait for him.
 
He is only interested when he is full of mood enhancers. When he is sober he thinks gay sex is going to mean he will be fucked.
Tell him you want to meet up and discuss what you/he like and what limits to place, after this you will get your answer.
PS being fucked is an acquired taste, even though a lot of guys fantasize about it, many of the first timers bitch and squeal, as I said , it requires technique.
 
Ooh just let it go, if he is ever interested I'm sure he will tell you. Now you will seat there hoping he's interested when he is clearly not.
 
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