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Calm down do not be over bearing with this guy it has only been 3 to 4 weeks. It will look like you are jealous suspecting of him and you will lose him.
 
This era of staying in constant touch is a set up for control issues and co-dependency. Relationships either have the spark to develop or not regardless. It's always best to err on the side of giving the other person space and breathing room.
 
I understand how you feel and have recently struggled with the same thing. My thought is that the beginning of a good relationship should be like a "honeymoon" phase where you can't get enough of eachother and as relationships go on, communication probably normally becomes less frequent. It sounds like he has been very busy, but I agree a quick text to just say hi can mean a lot and shows he cares...like he's at least thinking of you. It could be nothing but if it doesn't feel right, it may not be. When this happened to me recently, I decided to just not reply either and check in and see if he noticed and well, we haven't spoke in weeks now so that made it pretty clear that the less frequent contact was more than just being busy. I'd ask him about it and then let him make the move to show he does in fact care. I do agree with the other posters though, it is a balancing act of being too clingy and showing someone you are interstested in them. For me, actions speak louder than words.
 
Carlos, I know this is going to shock you but the universe does not revolve around you. You are sounding a bit like a psycho stalker chick. The guy does have a life beyond you. Calm down or he will run like a scalded dog from you and never look back. O and no one would blame him. Geez Louise.
 
sounds like someone is being a bit clingy and insecure. it's only been less than a month. People do have other things going on to be at your beck & call texts.

Your bound to scare/push him away. Just calm down and let things unfold as they come.
 
Sometimes people can get really caught up with life. Or it could be a signal error or hp problem. For me it's always the latter. My phone freezes when it receives messages. Sounds great so far! Keep us updated on how you are doing :)
 
I think he is over you. Let him know you are still interested then wait for his reply.
 
Rolyo85 said:
Frankly, it sounds to me like you overwhelmed him with texts and that put him off. I could be wrong of course. But in my experience, if people WANT to text you, they find the time.
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Exactly! Don't fall for the excuse that he's too busy. I've used it before, as I'm sure many of us have, and it's total bs.
 
dude, why are you not helping him move?

anyway, it could be either. hes either losing interest for some reason, or hes just a little overwhelmed by your constant texting (i dont really buy the "lost my charger" kind of excuses, tho). you can find out which it is, not by texting him more or panicking like a headless chicken, but by spending some actual time with him.
 
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