is it weird not to like anal sex at all?

[bronzeganymede]

hey guys, i think i saw a thread with the same topic. if so i apologize for the redundancy. anyway, ive never enjoyed anal sex at all, topping and bottoming. for awhile i wouldnt even watch guys fuck in porn, that it was gross and looked painful. anyway, everytime ive topped, i enjoyed being aggressive but was not even close to orgasming and would get bored. ive bottomed twice, once being voluntary and while i enjoyed closeness between me and partner, i got no pleasure out of it. and people assume im a bottom because im slim, cute and a bit passive and for awhile i thought that was my role. but i freak out when a guy wants to top. and deep down i want to bottom for the right guy but i dont think id enjoy it. the funny thing is i like fingering and rimming, giving and receiving. i much rather oral or especially jacking off. mutual masturbation is hot to me and i have more intense orgasms. although my dislike of sex hasnt been a problem with guys, it still feels weird not to like it and that i should. thoughts?

 

[Seasoned]

It doesn't sound like you dislike sex, but rather anal sex. You are open to it with the right partner. You are entitled to your own likes and dislikes, and if it is not a problem for you and/or a cherished partner then there is no problem. I tend to feel the same way about it most times and am just coming around to enjoying it in porn. Don't fret over it.

 

[Telstra]

hey guys, i think i saw a thread with the same topic. if so i apologize for the redundancy. anyway, ive never enjoyed anal sex at all, topping and bottoming. for awhile i wouldnt even watch guys fuck in porn, that it was gross and looked painful. anyway, everytime ive topped, i enjoyed being aggressive but was not even close to orgasming and would get bored. ive bottomed twice, once being voluntary and while i enjoyed closeness between me and partner, i got no pleasure out of it. and people assume im a bottom because im slim, cute and a bit passive and for awhile i thought that was my role. but i freak out when a guy wants to top. and deep down i want to bottom for the right guy but i dont think id enjoy it. the funny thing is i like fingering and rimming, giving and receiving. i much rather oral or especially jacking off. mutual masturbation is hot to me and i have more intense orgasms. although my dislike of sex hasnt been a problem with guys, it still feels weird not to like it and that i should. thoughts?

Thats is perfectly ok.
You need a partner/husband to sleep with and relax. Things will come naturally when you sleep together every night. (i think ) Sex is overrated. Full body contacts can be as good.

 

[MaxMouse]

I'm in the same boat so it's encouraging to see those responses

 

[Elwood]

I know with myself it took a while to enjoy it, but man do I love it now!! At first I was like um that's it, that fucking hurt and was not pleasant. I think it is something that takes a while to get used to, so I wouldn't give up on it right away.

 

[Eagle653]

I have to agree with soreknees on this. Anal sex may not be your thing, or you may prefer to only do that with someone very special. That's fine--don't worry that you're strange or anything because you don't like anal sex. Many gay men, and couples, that I know don't practice anal sex at all. They share intimacy in all sorts of non-intercourse ways.

 

[bronzeganymede]

thanks guy for all the kind words and advice. this quite helpful. i really do appreciate it. its nice to know im not the only one like this and there are guys who understand. telstra: i do actually prefer body contact to sex. soreknees and eagles653: anal sex definitely something id rather do with a special person. im just afraid id never like it.