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Is managment at my workplace trying to cast me out or teach me a lesson?

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Today while I was on lunch my bosses boss told me that our floor in our department was being fixed, which was not an issue we had ever talked about before.

Since they were available unexpectedly, I saw it as a good opportunity to ask for something to be ordered for another employee.

They said to have them talk to a different employee and have that person do it..--saying to not go through me even though it would look really incompetent if i didn't.--

Then later today when I was trying to leave, the top manager asked me if it was the person we just spoke about that needed something ordered.

Wondering why would they would be communicating to me at work off the clock and why would they be asking for clarification on something that they had already delegated to me.

But I knew why the manager asked who the employee was and why they did it at the time and place they did.

They were in fact the proper person to ask to have something ordered because they had specifically done it before, --- not the person I was told, by them, to go through.

If that isn't a proper channel, why were they breaking their own rule by talking to me off the clock about something we had never talked about?

They just wanted it both ways. That would explain why they were taking it upon themselves to control a process that was not their responsibility.

Then I realized when I tried to understand all of this, I sometimes do the same thing when I sense incompetence in those who are supposed to model leadership, but are exactly the kind of people to drag an organization down.

But this isn't a normal 'business' to be in, its political, you make many enemies whom you've always had their best interests at heart and make friends with those you compete against.

Since this person took over, our 'morale' score has dropped 10-15%, which could be seen as significant, considering it was on its way up from being below average.

My direct supervisor has come to the same conclusions that I have in a fraction of the time, has choice words for both my manager and his boss, but he is the type of person who would be vulnerable to demands, since he has no recourse if he fucks up and they chose to scapegoat him.

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Is the company is upset that they lost all of their demands at the last contact vote, and is seeking ways to punish the employees?

I also have spoke out against my own manager, who is incompetent, lazy, passive-aggressive, alienates every person under him especially the person directly below him and becomes visibly panicked anytime the subject of accountability comes up.

He has gone through 4 assistant managers since hes got here, and seems to enjoy watching his employees fail by systematically undermining them, having an attitude that people should care what he thinks when hes failed at his job.

Because of my opposition and the choices ive made, the battles ive kicked off, and the decisons ive supported others on, i have become sort of a person the other employees look to as someone to challenge the status quo. So i have been shifted by my choosing and mostly the desires of people I trust, into more responsibilities as they have come in the past, without an interview.

But im also disliked by the other half of employees who see me as someone that they do not trust. Im not sure they realize our program has the most vocal employees for a reason.

I dont doubt myself as much as I have in the past, but see few alternatives other than to keep plowing ahead.
 
Today I plowed ahead.

I stood up for myself, did not wait for someone else to do it, and will not break down
in the face of uncertainty.

I was able to establish as a matter of fact that I have been bullied by management.

I said it was enough time that these issues have gone on.

This didn't go over well with them, or poorly, but it did go over and I was able to articulate my position and listen to theirs.
 
I can't tell what is going on here. Unless there is some direct way to find out, I'd say to try and not guess. You don't need to become paranoid. If someone has a issue with you expect them to bring it up. If you're still in doubt at the time of your next review bring it up at that time.
 
There are times when you look at your payroll check and think to yourself, "I'm getting paid well and I'm just going to have to weather the storm". There are other times when you look at it and think, "It's just not worth it".

If you find yourself in a situation where you don't like the person you're working for and the politics in the office are poisonous to the point that you're worrying about it during your time off, it's time to consider whether it might be time to look for another job.
 
id rather get fired than quit.

there is a two-fold problem that is really causing it, that is my managers boss who is brainwashing our new assistant manager to get him to do things he would never do on his own.

watching my co-workers getting trashed day in and day out when they are not given a chance for growth. i hear about it but i feel like i should be doing more. i could not believe how quickly things have degenerated over the past couple months.

a short time ago two employees from two different locations committed suicide!

my managers boss has some serious flaw...like you think they were the kind of person that was left alone for too long growing up, huge narcissist. its like this person doesn't realize their house is burning around them.

i know i have problems too, a lot of us have them but willfully work together under this cloud of destruction. its not a healthy working environment+ so many issues that you cant believe it functions at all. even the new people being moved to our location feel like they are the only person there.

the company does have a pretty decent reputation, i get full benefits, 401k, 3 weeks paid vacation, incentive pay, many opportunities to advance. my problem is i cant physically get more education and work at the same time.

i feel i can wait things out, i am going to be off for a week coming up, i cannot be let go and i feel i may have put a stop to some of the bullying that is happening.
im really worried about my health. etc.

yes the place is a living hell, everyone there is living in hell, and finding a new job wont pay as much will have worse benefits and wont have retirement, what if that job is 10 times worse. sorry i sound wrecked because i fucking am. :confused::confused:
 
To be honest I had a hard time understanding all of this, I will say this, you sound a bit like me. You care and want to do a good job.
Politics can screw things up in a work place, my best advise is to do your job and ignore the idiots, it's hard to not care, to become detached, but it is just a job.
 
To be honest I had a hard time understanding all of this, I will say this, you sound a bit like me. You care and want to do a good job.
Politics can screw things up in a work place, my best advise is to do your job and ignore the idiots, it's hard to not care, to become detached, but it is just a job.

sorry i know its hard to understand without details, but my bosses boss got demoted and is no longer at our location.
 
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