Is my best friend straight, bi, gay or just curious?

[Javic20]

I'm a 20 year old bi male, no one knows, and i have a crush for my male best friend, but i'm confused. Sometimes he is the straightest person in the world, but other times he says things that sound kind of gay. For example in middle school we used to have sleepovers and resstled a lot, we ended in compromising positions more than once, we also liked to cuddled, but i never thought something more of it really. That stuff ended when we went to high school, he got a girldfriend and he loves her a lot, he is also ver jealous. On time we werw really drunk and i tried to kiss him (i don't even remember that night) he told me next morning, i was really ashamed but he wasn't mad, he laugh at it and even said that he felt flattered about it and also made a lot of jokes about his pennis and my ass or that he will be the one behind or that he will be the man and i the woman and stuff like that. Even before all that he was really homofobic but sudenly he hadn't any problem with gays, he even have one gay friend i think and now he can tell if a guy is handsome or sexy. One day he told me that i got handsome true be told (he has always be the handsome one) and when i told him that a girl got her finger in my asshole once, he was really interested about it and told me that he is curious about having a finger up his ass to estimulate the prostate, and that he likes for his girldfriend to rim his asshole. So, sometime i think he might be gay or bi or just curious because some little things he says and does but then hi acts super straight so i don't know what to think, any advice?

 

[tarallucci]

Might be bisexual. I don't know, keep joking about those episodes or talk about homosexuality in general and see where it goes.
A friend of mine keeps doing that with me, I think he likes me and he is bi, but I break off his teasing because I'm not interested.

 

[njcollegekid]

probably not what you wanna hear, but it sounds like just fooling around to me. plus because of the way you feel, you are fixating on everything he does thats indicative of possible interest, while ignoring signs that suggest otherwise - youre probably looking for an excuse to think the attraction is mutual (which is normal, but not exactly helpful).

i had a friend (and roommate) who would kid around like that and shit. he was just having fun, and was comfortable enough with me to do so. later i ended up coming out to him, didnt change his behavior in either way (where as if he were interested, with that knowledge he likely would have started coming on to me much more).

 

[Javic20]

Of course i hope you're wrong but that can be exactly what is happening

 

[mbynpm]

Try wrestling or fooling around and touching him and see how it goes. Don't pass it up.

 

[mbamike]

I think you are making sexual attraction out of guy horseplay. Just accept his friendship as such and enjoy his companionship. If you feel comfortable about your relationship with him, come out to him and listen closely to his response.

 

[Javic20]

Thanks for the advice