Is My Friend Gay?

[scorebig22]

umm, okay, so i know this gay named brad. i'm not sure if he's gay or not though...he always gets really touchy with me, but at the same time he's said before that he "hates fags" (his word). But when he's around me, he'll rub his hands up my legs, grab my ass, and "pretend" to be gay. But at the same time, he'll rub up on girls while he's around me and talk all the time about screwing girls (I don't believe him). he even tried to get me to have a 3-way kiss with him and a girl...

so is he gay, or not?

 

[jetsonboy]

He could be bi. Have you thought of that possibility?

 

[fag lick]

or possibly just curious.

 

[G-Lexington]

I opened up the Big Book of Homosexuals, and didn't see his name in there. He may have forgotten to submit it, though.

Given the limited information available, I'd say the most likely scenario is that your friend is "working through some issues".

Lex

 

[nickmybabe]

bisexual at least

 

[weeklyrentalbb]

My straight guy friends when placed with in the vicinity of each other always act gay. I don't get it but they do. They like to torment each other by placing their hands on each others thighs till one of them freaks out. They grope each other and they even grope me in the full presence of others. I'm gay but they don't know and I don't reciprocate their actions. They all are in and out of hetero relationships always talking about their girls or how they don't have one. It's quite humorous to watch them fondle each other actually only to rip away from each other when one of them crosses the other's threshold of tolerance.

 

[TygreBryte]

guys are so weird. I personally decided to not mess with guys who acted like that while talking about "hating fags." just too much work.

 

[vietboi]

sounds bi to me

 

[scorebig22]

He could be a fucking freak, have you thought of that possibility?

Well, I already know that. Thanks for the answers.

Got my ass/chest groped more tonight and got dry humped.

It gets awkward.

 

[jonty55]

You haven't said whether you are gay or not. I assume you are, but how do you act towards him - open or otherwise? If you are not out, he might be just playing you along to see what you do. If you are out, then he might want to play around.

 

[scorebig22]

You haven't said whether you are gay or not. I assume you are, but how do you act towards him - open or otherwise? If you are not out, he might be just playing you along to see what you do. If you are out, then he might want to play around.

I am not. So you're saying he's just playing along to see whether I reciprocate or not?

 

[scorebig22]

I am not. So you're saying he's just playing along to see whether I reciprocate or not?

For clarification, I meant "not out".

 

[orton86]

I opened up the Big Book of Homosexuals, and didn't see his name in there. He may have forgotten to submit it, though.

Given the limited information available, I'd say the most likely scenario is that your friend is "working through some issues".

Lex

Where is that book located? I would like to take a look. That's so weird how I have never heard of it until now! Thanks, Lexington!

 

[Tommyboy69]

Reciprocate a bit and see what happens!! He may be testing the waters to see if you might be interested!! Could lead to lots of fun for both of you!

Also lots of deeply closeted gay guys will say they "hate fags" to make themselves seem more macho to others--but actions speak louder than words!!

Good luck my friend!

 

[G-Lexington]

I only have the one copy. It's updated monthly, though.

Next time, he tries something - feeling you up, dry humping you - try it back. Feel HIM up. Dry hump back. What's he going to say - "What are you - gay?"? He initiated it, and did precisely what you did. Let him make the first moves, and see where it leads.

That is, if you want it to lead there. The fact that you say it's awkward makes me wonder. Just because you're gay, and he (maybe) wants to get in on with you doesn't mean you have to.

Lex