Is My Girth Always Going To Be A Problem?

[Homiesexual]

My penis is is about 7-inches long, and about 6-and-1/4-inches in circumference. I guess a lot of people think that this is something to brag about, but so far, it's been functionally frustrating, for both oral and anal sex: Guys complain that performing oral sex hurts their jaw too much, so they just stop after a minute, or so. As far as anal sex goes, I've tried to get into an experienced bottom, on multiple occasions, and there was still no chance for me to even get the head in. I've actually tried hooking up with a few guys, now, and have never been able to make it work, with either of them. It's been a frustrating - and honestly, quite depressing -, experience so far, for both men I've tried to have sex with, and for myself; my cock effectively blocks itself. lol

So, I mean...is there any chance or me having normal, casual and fun sex, or is it always just going to be too painful, and too much work?

...and yes, I know that you have to use a lot of lube. That didn't seem to help.

 

[Benvolio]

Have your experiences been primarily with young guys with little experience?

 

[Homiesexual]

Have your experiences been primarily with young guys with little experience?

No. This has been mostly with guys in their 30s and 40s, with only one guy in his early 20s. One guy admitted to me that he had been with "over 50" guys, but just had trouble with me.

 

[LuckysRevenge]

You've just met the wrong people. There are guys who have dealt with dicks bigger than yours.

If you're just talking about casual sex, there are a lot of guys who would love to take that size.

 

[bankside]

My penis is is about 7-inches long, and about 6-and-1/4-inches in circumference. I guess a lot of people think that this is something to brag about, but so far, it's been functionally frustrating, for both oral and anal sex: Guys complain that performing oral sex hurts their jaw too much, so they just stop after a minute, or so. As far as anal sex goes, I've tried to get into an experienced bottom, on multiple occasions, and there was still no chance for me to even get the head in. I've actually tried hooking up with a few guys, now, and have never been able to make it work, with either of them. It's been a frustrating - and honestly, quite depressing -, experience so far, for both men I've tried to have sex with, and for myself; my cock effectively blocks itself. lol

So, I mean...is there any chance or me having normal, casual and fun sex, or is it always just going to be too painful, and too much work?

...and yes, I know that you have to use a lot of lube. That didn't seem to help.

I dunno about casual sex, but i have regular sex with my guy, and it's fun, and he's as thick as you. That didn't happen overnight though. It's like putting your ass on a fitness program. It took a while to build up to. And then it took a while for him to figure out he truly wasn't going to hurt me and he could fuck as much as he needed to. I don't know if that seems like too much work for you. It was fine for us because it wasn't a random thing, we were in it for life. It was actually fun to watch our sex life get better over 6 months..a year...just because we got more skilled and got to know each other better physically.

It would have happened a lot faster if both of us knew from the start it was possible (and it totally is. not just to get it over with but to be truly fucking awesomely comfortable). And it also would have gone a lot faster if I had realized he was afraid of hurting me even when I was okay. If you're not worried about fucking by a certain date on the calendar, it's actually hot to have a guy play with your dick, pushing himself to take a bit more each time over a period of weeks or months, until you can finally fuck hard all the way. Until then, its just a fun way to start things off that you can finish another way.

It's funny, the ongoing problem is that I'm not as thick as him but I am longer, so sometimes (but not always) I have to watch how deep I go because it can hurt him.

 

[borg69unimatrix]

Am I the only one that wants to see it???

 

[KaraBulut]

So, I mean...is there any chance or me having normal, casual and fun sex, or is it always just going to be too painful, and too much work?
...and yes, I know that you have to use a lot of lube. That didn't seem to help.

When things get out of the range of "average", you do either have to find someone who is used to bigger guys (or toys) or you have to develop a lot of patience.

Or you have to find fuckbuddies and not just one-night stands.

Or you have to be a little more negotiable/versatile with casual sex partners.

 

[Homiesexual]

I don't know if that seems like too much work for you.

No, it's completely fine with me, but it just didn't seem to be worth it for other people, y'know?


I'm glad that you've managed to make it work, though, and that you can now describe it as "comfortable". lol You also didn't frame it as some kind of extreme fetish, but as something intimate that you worked through, because you cared about each other. That's actually made me feel a little better, so thank you.


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Am I the only one that wants to see it???

 

[Georgiadude]

I have the same issue. I've posted about it here a few times. Most guys think it's a blessing but it isn't. Don't get me wrong. I love my penis but as I've said before. Sex isn't fun if I know I'm hurting someone. I can't tell you how many times I've had to stop topping someone because they couldn't handle it. (pics posted in the show your dick thread for you pervs lol) The other night I hooked up with a guy that could handle things and it went really well. I made him cum without touching his dick. OP, don't lose hope. I'm honest with guys before we hook up. I tell them I'm thick (magnums are tight) and let them decide. I rim them and will finger them first to try and loosen them up. Get them comfortable with you and like you said lube,lube and lube. Also go slow. What I've started to do is get lined up and let the bottom push back on it. That way he can adjust to the size at his own pace instead of me guessing if I'm going to fast. that's help a fair amount. Good luck and dont give up. Be honest beforehand and most guys will know whether they can handle it or not. Hope that helps some.

Steven.

 

[unloadonme]

When things get out of the range of "average" ...

What's average? We see a lot of statistics about penis length, some of which need to be taken with a pinch of salt, but I don't recall anything about circumference. I thought 6 inches was pretty normal.

 

[purina]

You've been spoiled. I thought there was a link to a chart in this thread, but Onion Fry will have to do.

http://www.justusboys.com/forum/threads/200861-embarrassing-trouble?p=3625575&viewfull=1#post3625575
Here's a shocker. The average penis size for the human male is going to fall into the 5.5-6.0 inch range. here's a rough break down

5.01 - 5.50 16%
5.51 - 6.00 33%
6.01 - 6.50 24%
6.51 - 7.00 16%
the remaining 11% is beyond the average means

as for girth
3.50 - 4.00 8%
4.01 - 4.50 24%
4.51 - 5.00 35%
5.01 - 5.50 21%
5.51 - 6.00 6%
the remain 6% is beyond average means

 

[unloadonme]

You've been spoiled. I thought there was a link to a chart in this thread, but Onion Fry will have to do.

Interesting. Thanks.

 

[KaraBulut]

What's average? We see a lot of statistics about penis length, some of which need to be taken with a pinch of salt, but I don't recall anything about circumference. I thought 6 inches was pretty normal.

Confirming the table listed above, the range of 4.5 to 5 inches in circumference is the average range- 4.7-4.8 being the center of the range. 6 to 6.25 would be about 30% larger than the average.

Porn and "internet inches" has distorted the expectations of what is typical.