Is my penis abnormal?

[XxstillhidingtherexX]

OP/N: I have pictures included to help with my question.

For a very long time, I have been extremely self conscious about my penis. I am still a virgin, and this is partly why I am still today. (The others being that I want to find someone right, not rush into something, etc) Ever since I was young, I always noticed that my penis seemed different from the "norm." I had seen my friends' dicks a few times, and others from pictures. They always looked so perfect. When I turned 18, and I started coming on here, and watching porn, all the guys I saw had perfect penises too! I then told myself that they were porn stars, and they might differ from the norm. I then saw pictures that people who weren't professional performers posted, and they too had, what I had in my mind, perfect penises.

What I mean by perfect, is that they are virtually spotless. It's mostly all one color or pigment, and ends at a nice mushroom head. Their skin surrounding their balls are taut, and not loose.

Mine on the other hand, is completely the opposite. I have birthmarks all over my penis. I even have one on the head, right by the slit. Are these real birthmarks, or is it pigment? I have beauty marks, (or that's what I think they are called, they are really black dots) all over my penis, both on the front, and back. My scrotum is wrinkly, and there is a long dark line where, and forgive me for I don't know my anatomy perfectly, my urethra? is. Parts of my scrotum is much darker than other parts of the scrotum and the penis itself. Is that pigment again? I shower just about every day, and scrub all over my penis. I really hope it's not dark because it's dirty. Lastly, I am circumcised, but I think something went wrong. There is so much loose skin, and I can pull the loose skin very far out. Maybe that part is normal?

I know there really isn't any "normal" when it comes to the human body. We all have parts that differ. Maybe there is nothing wrong with my penis. But if there is, what should I do next?

 

[looseliam]

Here's what it comes down to: it's your willy and there's nothing you can do about it. Learn to love it. Let it love you, too =]

 

[panda29]

From what I can see you have nothing to worry about you look great,I love a penis that is darker. My only request is that you do nothing but post more pics of your beautiful cock & balls .

 

[Dedrick]

Okay, let me try and answer a couple of issues you brought up.

First, there is no such thing as a "perfect penis." I've seen penises similar to yours before - including penises with "beauty marks" in similar positions.

Second, there are different types of circumcisions. There is low, high, tight, and loose. A guy who has a high and tight cut, for example, is someone whose circumcision scar is further toward the base of their penis. They would have virtually no moveable skin when erect. There are also different styles of cutting, for example dorsal slits.

My guess is the extra skin you have is pretty sensitive compared to the skin further down on your shaft. It likely also aids you in masturbation. Am I right?

Third, I notice absolutely nothing out of the ordinary regarding your scrotum. I think I see a couple of freckles. The slight changes in pigmentation is common, though I guess if you're looking at guys with lighter skin tones it might not be as obvious. However, if you get up close you'd see something similar.

Fourth, a penis that is slightly darker in tone than the rest of your skin is also common in some men.

Quite honestly, the only thing that I notice that makes your penis stand out from all the penises I've seen is the beauty mark. I've seen such marks before, though. It adds character and flavor; uniqueness.

You don't have anything to worry about. You're being overly self-conscious and critical of your body. I don't foresee any man turning you down sexually for the way your penis looks. More likely, he's going to fall in love with it because it looks slightly more unique than others he's seen before.

Oh, and the extra skin? It's fun to be with a guy who has extra skin or who is uncircumcised. It's fun to play with when giving handjobs and blowjobs.

Relax. Love your penis. It's the only one you have.

 

[loveitacceptit]

yeah, you look completely fine. not everyone has those birthmarks on their dick, but it's not like they're a bad thing. they're just different. and who cares about a little extra foreskin left over? if i were a guy about to sleep with you for the first time and i saw your dick, i can't imagine i'd think anything of it that didn't fall under the category of standard pre-sex elation, and i'm not just saying that to be nice. reading the title of this thread, i was bracing myself for some pretty weird penises, and i can honestly say that all those pictures up there struck me as totally normal.

before i had sex, i had a lot of trouble accepting the equipment i was born with down there, too. i had SO much anxiety about how it looked, most of it focusing on whether or not i was small. it was bad enough that i actually turned down a blowjob. multiple times. from a guy i was crazy about. this was a mistake. yeah, it turns out i'm a little bit smaller than a lot of guys, but once i actually used my dick for more than just jerking off, i realized: it doesn't fucking matter! it's still sex. i most likely wouldn't make a killing in the porn industry, but all the guys i've been with have been plenty satisfied, and knowing that helped me so goddamn much to get over those stupid, useless anxieties i had. and you have even less to be worried about than i had!

you may not have the perfect dick you want, but i think in the end, it all comes down to what looseliam said. learn to love it, man. i can offer you my objective opinion that there is absolutely no reason not to. your penis is fine. go use it.

 

[Corny]

As others have said - there is nothing wrong with your penis. I'd even say quite a few people are now jealous.

 

[XxstillhidingtherexX]

Wow! I really didn't expect these kind of responses. Thank you all so much. I feel much, much better about myself. You've all given me such great advice. I've always been very self conscious about my entire body; and my penis was definitely high on the list of why. However, after today, I truly feel much better.

I now know that I will be able to accept what I have, and that what I have is not a bad thing. I can not stress enough how grateful I am.

Thanks again. Truly.

 

[AlmondMilk]

Good to know you're feeling better You definitely have a great package.

 

[gewhite3]

I have a good friend of many years and his penis is two-tone. As in 2 different skin colors, almost variegated in a sense. Never stopped me from enjoying it.......he had a great one. Be proud of what you have and go with it.

 

[Darted]

It looks great, just learn to love it and other guys will too!